It took me a long time to convince myself to suck cock. I wish I hadn't waited so long. I didn't start until I was in my sixties.
Now I like to kneel down with a cock in front of my face and bob on it.
Please sir, can I have some more.
I'm in Connecticut if you are ever in the area.
Last edited by bob onit; Feb 22, 2025 at 10:48 AM.
No. The first time I let a man cum in my mouth was the first time I ever sucked another man's cock. I was 26 at the time. It was in SF at a gay bathhouse. I was bi-curious and had already let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porno theater when I was 22 (this was in 1976). I knew I liked having my cock touched by a man but I wanted to see what it was like to touch another man's cock, take it into my mouth and find out if I liked sucking cock or not. I was living in LA and was very concerned about someone I knew seeing me so I decided to go to SF and visit a bathhouse there to have my first experience giving a BJ.
It was a weekday morning and I entered the bathhouse, paid my money and was given a towel and a key to a private room. I went to the room, took off my clothes and headed out to explore the bathhouse and hopefully hook up with a suitable man. I went past the shower area and came across the sauna. I decided to go in and found it empty. I sat for a while by myself and after about 15 minutes or so I was pretty hot and sweaty so I decided to go back to the showers and get cleaned up. After I washed I decided to head back to the sauna.
This time the sauna was not empty. There were two men in it. One at the far end of the sauna and one sitting on a bench just inside the door. I decided to sit down next to the man sitting on the bench just inside the door. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that he was touching his cock. The man at the other end of the sauna could see this and decided to leave. I wanted to let the man sitting next to me to know that I was interested in him so I put my hand down to my pubic hair and moved my hand back and forth, careful not to touch my cock. As soon as I did that the man put his hand on my back. That was all the encouragement I needed. I got up from the bench and moved in between his legs. His cock was semi hard and sticking out. I reached out with my left hand and started to gently stroke his cock. It was very large, thick and cut. It felt amazing to actually be touching another man's cock for the first time and feeling his cock get harder and longer in my hand As much as I enjoyed touching his cock I knew I wanted to take him in my mouth so I moved in closer, closed my eyes and took his cock into my mouth. I began to move back and forth on his cock, gently sucking him and paying special attention to the very large head since that was what I enjoyed most when a woman would give me a BJ.. I knew immediately that I could do this, that I didn't hate it and that I actually really liked having him in my mouth. I could feel his cock getting bigger and harder as I sucked him. The idea that someone could come into the sauna and see me giving this man a BJ crossed my mind but I was so into what I was doing I decided I didn't care if someone came into the sauna and saw me sucking this man's cock.
This went on for about five minutes and then the man said we should go to his room. He had become fully erect by then and his cock was about eight or nine inches long and very thick. I said OK and told him I was only interested in giving him a hand job or a blowjob. I wanted him to know I was not at all interested in him fucking me. He said that was fine and off we went to his room.
When we got to his room he laid down on the small cot that was provided. I knelt at the side and leaned over his waist, reached for his cock and resumed sucking him.. After a short time he asked me to lick and suck his balls and he spread his legs so I could move in between them and have access to his balls. Like his cock, his balls were big.. I licked and gently sucked on them for several minutes, slowly stroking his cock as it leaked precum while I was exploring his balls with my tongue and mouth. His cock and balls had a very strong musky masculine smell that oddly really excited me.
I wanted his cock back in my mouth so I started licking and sucking his cock again. I decided after about 15 minutes of this that I wanted to make him cum so I stared sucking his cock with a faster rhythm, paying extra attention to the large mushroom head with my tongue while sucking him. I had one hand on his cock and I cupped and gently rubbed his balls with the other hand. He was breathing harder now and his cock was leaking a constant stream of pre-cum into my mouth. Tasting his pre-cum got me even hotter because I knew he was getting closer to climaxing.
All of a sudden he took both his hands and put them on the back of my head. I sensed that this meant he was about to cum and that he intended to cum in my mouth. I wanted to see what it was like to have a man cum in my mouth so I kept on with my sucking. I felt his cock getting even harder and a few seconds later I. felt his cock spasm and I could feel the pumping motion of his cock ejaculating his cum into my mouth. There were about four or five really good spurts. It was a big load, very thick and very very tasty. I continued sucking until he stopped cumming and swirled the cum around in my mouth before finally swallowing it down. I quickly realized that having him cum in my mouth was something I really liked and that I would want to do this again with other men. The man took his hands off of my head. He thanked me and told me I gave a very good BJ and i left..I could taste and smell his cum for hours afterwards and was glad that I did because it was a great reminder of what I had just done for the rest of the day.
Little did he know that he was my very first BJ and cum swallow.
Thanks for the hot share! Never been to a bath house, but in a fantasy world with no STDs I sure would have loved to spend some time in one.
Not really, I went to a place called the Peeping Tom in Chicago's old town section received my first blow job by a man. The following week went for my second blow job, only before I came he stopped sucking me and put his cock through the hole. I touched it and soon had it in my mouth swallowing his load.
The only person needing convincing was myself and the convincing was incredibly easy.
For me it wasn't so much convincing , I was convinced for 6 months of watching gay porn and jerking to it every day and multiple times a day that I wanted to taste cock bad! and have a man work on my cock I needed it and wanted it , however to take the step to actually meeting a guy in person was the hard part , I flaked on so many guys i had made plans with just because i was so nervous to go through with meeting a guy to play. Until one day nervously finally got the courage and extremely horny rubbing my cock in my car all the way driving to his apartment and going up the elevator to his apartment , I was there and i just went for it and glad i did, but took me a long time to pull it off. probably over 6 months
Rick, that was hot as fuck!Originally Posted by RICKCASV
yes!!!!!!
Mmmmmmmmmm!!!
FUCK YEAH!!!!!!
My first time was also with a bunch of little neighborhood boys and one older boy who pulled out his very big mature cock at the clubhouse to convince and persuade the rest of us into getting him hard, jerking him off and then licking his cock clean! I will always regret declining to join the others in sucking his big beautiful cock and swallowing his creamy young cum load that day.
I watched him on many other occasions jerk off, squirt his cum all over us, and still I declined to suck his big cock for him or suck the smaller cocks of the other boys. But, though I neve
r had the courage to suck cock and I did become a committed big cock voyeur.
Last edited by Mfmfantasy50; Apr 15, 2026 at 7:52 AM.
No, not at all. I was 18. I had gone down on women only previously that I had been dating or hooked up with, I was in high school, and it was what I was told that I ?needed to do? from my uber straight pals. It was ok, but I don?t think I truly enjoyed the experience, didn?t think about it when masturbating. I had fantasies about sex with guys and had secret crushes and what not during that time. What would it be like, what would it taste like, am I turned on because of the taboo, or?oh no! Am I a gay kid in a small conservative town? No, I can?t be gay! That?d ruin Christmas and my life! So I?d go get laid by a girl and be cured of the gay. That?s how it works right?
The summer after graduation my friend came out that he was gay to me, I told him I thought I was too, half drunk in an empty house for a weekend on a Friday afternoon?we slipped off our trunks and into the hot tub where we kissed and let our hands explore each other?s bodies. I remember thinking that this didn?t feel taboo or weird at all, yeah his lips were not as soft as the girls I had only ever kissed, it made me feel safe, comfortable and extremely horny. We probably would have kept going but we heard a car door and scurried inside and waited, it was the neighbor. I was under a blanket on the couch, he had put on a pair of shorts and ran upstairs to see if his folks were home. Nope! He brought two more of his dad?s beers down though, so that was good and sat down next to me on the couch and we laughed and clinked bottles. I pulled the blanket off of me, still hard and asked if he still wanted to make out. He did, I helped him out of his shorts and he laid on top of me while we went back to kissing and rubbing our hard dicks against each other. He stood up to let the dogs out, and came back to the couch, I sat up and started softly stroking his hard cock. It has a great curve to it, cut, and a gorgeous head. There was a lot of heat coming off of his cock too it seamed and it glistened with pre-cum, I licked a little off of the head as a bead appeared, and started sucking him right there. For the most part I imitated what a few girlfriends had done to me. His balls started moving and he stiffened up and made a noisy exhale and it was in my mouth, I kept going through the continuing spasms having swallowed most of his load, some dripping out.
He collapsed on the couch with a smile and the tears he had when telling me that he thought he was gay were long gone.
I had sucked my first cock, and loved it. It felt so much more natural than going down on a girl. The experience was nothing like I had imagined, it was actually so much better.
We spent the weekend watching a gay porn tape he had hidden and basically taking notes and trying out what we saw. That summer before college we spent as super secret boyfriends was amazing, and I still to this day consider him my first love. We drifted apart after going to college in separate states, but it?s usually a given that we will end up in bed together if we are ever in the same city for business, or vacation, the class reunions are usually spent making an appearance at the event, and then in a hotel room having some wonderful sex.
Last edited by Footstep40; Apr 18, 2026 at 8:14 PM.
No . I was married at the time . When I was home alone I watched a lot of straight porn . When I was searching I landed on a gay porn site. Then , I started to watch only gay porn . Seeing cocks made me so horny . Then when I watched videos of guys sucking cocks and swallowing cum I got soooooooo horny . I went to a known. gay bar and a guy whispered in my ear that he wanted to suck my cock .I said only if I can suck your cock . We went to his place and sucked each other . When he came inside my mouth I was hooked . Got divorced and have been sucking ever since . And, loving every drop I swallow !!
No, as I've explained many times in this forum, my first time giving oral sex happened in the context of an MFM threesome. It happened very naturally and spontaneously -- without so much as a conscious thought or any coercion from my threesome hosts.
It didn’t but at first, I thought I liked being sucked instead. I kept seeing this one guy and it felt nice but something was missing. One afternoon, I went to see him and he let me suck his cock a little. It was too big for my tastes but a lightbulb switched on and I realized “oh wow! This is what I want!” Then I just searched for fellow married guys who needed head. I’ve only done it a few times but I couldn’t imagine anything else at this point.
I have never found one "too big" I love sucking big cocks! Two of the guys I fuck have big cocks and I love to suck them before and after I fuck them
I'm sure I've told my first bi experience story in one thread or the other over time, but... Unlike many on the site I didn't have early sexual play with other males. Wouldn't have occurred to me or any of my friends. I never had (nor have had for that matter) any real attraction to men, either physically or romantically. Attraction to sex, though - entirely different matter.
Thirty-five or so years ago when I was thirty-five (half my life ago), my first marriage had just drawn to a close and I was living on my own. Over the years I'd noted that most women seemed to actually enjoy pleasuring and being pleasured by my cock and had developed a curiosity as to what that would be like. As some others have occasionally mentioned, Penthouse Letters might have been an influence to my curiosity as well. In those days we had a free advertising paper delivered to each household called the 'Pennysaver' and in the personals there I discovered an ad from a guy who was looking for a man/men to "play with". On a complete whim I wrote to him, he wrote back and we ended up meeting at my house. He was five years or so older than me. I'm 5' 7" and he's 6' 4" and he asked if that made any difference to me. Having had a girlfriend who was 6' 1" it really wasn't a big deal.
I've always been sexually adventurous so when he turned up I was feeling ready for pretty much anything. He asked how I felt about kissing and I responded "if we're going to do this we might as well do it all" which I think surprised him a bit. It felt kinda odd kissing a guy at first, but I was instantly hard so I figured that was a sign it was all going to work out fine. So as to whether it took a lot of convincing or not? - none - I was eager to find out what it was about. So there's the answer to the original question. The rest of this is just gratuitous perhaps, but...
After some more kissing we took off our upper clothing and tweaked and sucked each others' nipples. Mmmm... man nipples maybe aren't quite as nice to suck as the female sort but I was certainly getting a really positive response (always a turn-on) and I really loved having mine sucked. It was a hot summer day, we were both wearing loose shorts and started fondling each other's "package" through them while the nipple play continued. There wasn't any sense of feeling each other "grow" as we were both rock hard already by then. At that point it was (well past) time to drop the shorts!
Yet more kissing and I touched another man's cock and balls for the first time. Warm, soft but firm. Cock - about the same slightly-longer-than-average as mine, but straight whereas mine has a turn to the left and upwards. Cut whereas mine is uncut. Slightly smaller head, but still plump and smooth. Slightly smaller, but tighter balls than mine - nice in my hand... some mutual stroking and then he dropped to his knees and kisses and licked up my cock shaft, took the head in his mouth and swirled his tongue around it. Then some stroke-sucking (his usual technique). After maybe ten minutes I pulled him up and kissed my own way down below. Kissed around everything and then ran my tongue up between his balls, turned my head sideways and ran my lips up his shaft flicking my tongue along as I went. Nearly blew his load apparently! Then that blissful moment when I took the head in my mouth for the first time. Immediate complete understanding of why the women enjoyed it. Bobbing and licking, deeper and deeper on the shaft until I have it all in to the hilt. Slide out to the head, swirl, lick, apply suction, back down... my first wife's technique and one I generally apply. Precum leaking away... Then I stood back up, we kissed some more and laid down on a bed for some 69. In spite of our height difference somehow that has always worked out fine. Lots of ball sucking (I like doing it and LOVE - ADORE having mine worked over). Then his head popped up and he asked it I was up for some fucking? It wouldn't be my first time with my cock in an ass nor the first thing to enter mine (but the first real cock). (As an aside - it turned out he'd not had another man's cock in his ass since high school - why choose me? Always wondered. Mine is the only cock that has fucked him and his mine. Funny how that happened).
So he pulled out some condoms, I put one on, he lubed me up and I did his ass and in I went. Holding his hips and thrusting... his hard cock hanging down and swaying around somehow incredibly arousing! Lots of moans all around... after a good long while I felt myself getting close to cumming and I just didn't want to yet so I suggested it was my time to take a turn on the receiving end. Pulled out, took off the condom and we reversed the prep process. Oh, those lubed fingers sliding in felt good! Then the head popping in. Ahhh... a few gentle strokes and then I somehow just wanted all of it and pushed back to the hilt. It hurt a little, but also felt really fine, way more intense than anything I'd stuck in myself to that point. I'm sure that the pleasure he was getting as well was part of that. Always that. Finally he pulled out and we stroked each other to orgasm on each others' bellies and rubbed it around a bit. This sorta set a pattern to our sex for perhaps then next fifteen years, though the locations and circumstances changed - sometimes at my place or his when we had it to ourselves, sometimes on his sailboat or a "no-tell". Sometimes we'd add a third for a threesome in which case we were both "tops" and usually would spit roast some guy.
About fifteen years back we had a little discussion about why we were using condoms given we were exclusive when it came to anal and safe. That opened up some lovely new possibilities. Along with barebacking came leaving a load and receiving one and at the same time sucking to completion. That feeling of the final swelling, spasm and the flood of cum is somehow irreplaceable and I'm glad I've got to experience it. I learned something more about what the women had enjoyed and why.
So, long post (with apologies), but there you have it. We're now old guys, both have tight sphincters and we don't get quite hard enough any more to get into each others' butts. You get old, you adapt - I bring along a six-inch vibrator and we use that on each other, wherein I discovered I could have a fantastic prostrate orgasm. The great thing about that is we can fuck each other and suck at the same time. I've had orgasms that last fifteen minutes and had me begging for it to end as it was just too much! We're meeting up tomorrow and I'm still looking forward to that lovely moment when I first feel that nice cock head in my mouth. Never fails to thrill!
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