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Hi, Bi guy here. Attached but have occasional buds on the DL. I am curious to hear how having FWB is working for others. I have only had a couple that lasted. it seems to hard to be in sync in terms of availability, specific interest! , level of risky behaviour etc. to find a lasting fit. what are others experiences. How long does a FWB situation last for most of you?
I've had two long term FWB. The first lasted about 2 years my current one is going on five year. I've been lucky...
I had 2 that lasted many yrs, both are still good friends, one I knew for over 30 yrs and the sexual part was for last 20, the other I knew about 20 yrs and both now we talk, but too far apart. We knew eachother in real life as friends. As for the online FWBs, either their schedule is ass backwards of yours and yours is bass ackwards to theirs and most the time they will ghost you after a few days.
I’ve had a few that lasted 1-2 years, a couple that were about 4 years, currently involved with a guy for over 5 years and been sucking off my neighbor for about 15 years, and have had a few that only lasted a couple meetings then they disappear on me.
You will find out that 99.9% will ghost out on you, it is a common game. Most get on the male sites only when they horny to find someone to chat with to get off and have no real intentions of meeting, then they GONE.Quote:
Originally Posted by dbaker
I have had the most luck with FWBs that I already know. I started sucking off my cousin when we were 14 and he remained a regular feeder until he died from c0vid complications at age 51. My other regular feeder of 9.5 years was a guy I had known since high school, but didn't discover he liked having a personal cocksucker until we were 35. He even commented one time that he wished he had known I loved sucking cock in high school so he could have started feeding me way back then.