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Coming to terms with one's sexual orientation, including being bisexual, is a personal and often transformative journey. It's essential to be patient and compassionate with yourself during this process. Here are some steps that may help you come to terms with being bisexual:

Self-Acceptance: Acknowledge and accept your feelings and attractions without judgment. Remember that being bisexual is a valid and natural sexual orientation.

Educate Yourself: Learn more about bisexuality and its various forms. Understanding that bisexuality exists along a spectrum can help you recognize the diversity of experiences within this orientation.

Seek Support: Reach out to supportive friends, family members, or members of the LGBTQ+ community who can provide understanding and empathy. Connecting with others who have similar experiences can be empowering.

Find Resources: Read books, articles, and blogs about bisexuality to gain insights and perspectives from others who have gone through a similar journey.

Speak with a Professional: Consider talking to a counselor or therapist who specializes in LGBTQ+ issues. Professional support can be valuable in navigating complex feelings and emotions.

Explore Your Feelings: Take time for self-reflection and explore your feelings without pressure. Understanding your attractions and desires can lead to a deeper understanding of your identity.

Challenge Internalized Bias: Be aware of any internalized negative beliefs or societal biases you may have about bisexuality. Challenge these beliefs and replace them with positive affirmations.

Practice Self-Compassion: Be gentle with yourself as you navigate this process. Accept that it's okay to have questions and uncertainties, and remember that self-discovery is an ongoing journey.

Find Role Models: Look for positive role models who identify as bisexual and have embraced their identity. This can provide inspiration and reassurance.

Celebrate Your Identity: Embrace your bisexuality as an integral part of who you are. Celebrate the diversity and richness it brings to your life.

Be Patient: Coming to terms with your sexual orientation may take time, and that's okay. Allow yourself the space to grow and evolve.

Remember that the process of coming to terms with your sexual orientation is unique to each individual. Be kind to yourself throughout this journey, and know that it's okay to seek support from others. You are not alone, and many people have gone through similar experiences and found acceptance and peace with their identities.

Sexual orientation, including bisexuality, is a complex and multifaceted aspect of human identity that varies from person to person. It is essential to recognize that sexual orientation is not a choice; rather, it is believed to be influenced by a combination of biological, genetic, hormonal, environmental, and psychological factors. Sexual orientation emerges and develops over time, often during adolescence and early adulthood.

When it comes to bisexuality specifically, it refers to individuals who experience attraction to both genders, regardless of whether they are male or female. It is important to note that bisexuality is just as valid and natural as any other sexual orientation.

The reasons why some men may identify as bisexual can vary and are unique to each individual. Some possible factors that could contribute to a man identifying as bisexual include:

Sexual Attraction: Men may experience genuine and authentic attractions to both men and women.

Fluidity of Sexuality: For some individuals, sexual orientation may not fit into rigid categories like heterosexual or homosexual, and they may experience a degree of fluidity in their attractions.

Understanding of Self: As people explore their feelings and attractions, they may come to understand their sexual orientation better.

Social and Cultural Influences: Social and cultural factors, such as attitudes towards sexuality, acceptance, and visibility of diverse sexual orientations, can play a role in how people perceive and express their sexual orientation.

Individual Experiences: Personal experiences and relationships can also shape and influence one's understanding of their sexual orientation.

It is essential to avoid generalizations and assumptions about why someone identifies as bisexual or any other sexual orientation. Every person's journey of self-discovery and understanding of their sexuality is unique and valid.

Lastly, it is crucial to support and respect individuals' autonomy and self-identification when it comes to sexual orientation. Everyone deserves acceptance and understanding as they navigate their identities and experiences.

Last night was truly awesome, at the bar I met and hooked up with a middle aged woman who was there for work. After talking with her she smiled and said she was married and in town for work. She was quite short, perhaps 5?1 130 lbs and throwing caution to the wind she made me an offer I couldn?t refuse. She whispered I have and appetite for cock, if you come to my room we can play and do everything except you can?t fuck my pussy, you can eat me, I will suck you dry and if you want my ass you can have that as well but my pussy belongs to my husband.

This whole conversation took and 1 1/12 so when we decided to cash out she went 1st and I followed maybe 15 minutes later. She had given me a room key so I could let myself in. Upon arriving with a throbbing hardon she was waiting on me to shower I got naked and she grabbed my cock and guided me into the shower. Fuck this was so fucking hot I almost lost it right there, I lathered up her ass and she licked and teased my cock and balls. I apologized as I cummed all over her face. She smiled and said we have more time baby.

Once out of the shower she plastered her pussy into my face as sucked my cock some more. I was instant hard again and she motioned she wanted her ass plowed. She got on her back and guided my cock into her ready ass hole. When my cock was buried balls deep she squirmed and squirted so hard it was like a pressure washer on my balls. Fuck it was awesome. So I wouldn?t cum again right away I slowed down and just let my cock set in her ass but her pussy kept gushing with orgasms. I lost it and spent my 2 nd load deep in her ass. When I pulled out she farted so loud and cum came rushing out. We showered once again and she kissed me saying thank you for a wonderful evening and I left,

Hotel sex is sometimes the best.

Hello, just wanted to write an update on how everything is sexually for me over the last half year or so.
I have talked extensively with my partner about my Bisexuality recently with the main theme of reaction being why have you not talked about this more along with a surprised attitude.
Also noted that I have a lot of my pics on line and that I do love masturbation and oral and have no interest in anal of any kind.
As a result, I feel less encumbered and much more free to enjoy my masturbation and cum eating.

So you all know me and my sexuality.. I am very very submissive and very sissy minded.. I service sexually Frustrated married men.. I love these guys and feel deeply for their polite.. I love being able to give them and offer up my body for their pleasure.. I love knowing that they come to me stressed and frustrated and full of built up cum.. when they leave me they are no longer stressed and drained dry of cum.. they are relaxed and cum free.. they have left it all in me..
About three weeks ago I had an opening in my roster am I met a guy that I have come to enjoy a lot.. the first thing he ask me was can we just fuck??? It kinda took me back.. I ask him about his marriage and sex life with his wife.. he told me that he loved his wife and they have sex 2-3 times a week.. he said that she knows about his bi side and desire for sex with men.. that she encouraged him to find someone to have regular sex with.. that she found one of my old adds about sexually Frustrated married men.. and suggested he contact me.. so long story short he is hung nicely 8? and rather thick.. he is mid 40?s and has lots of stamina!!! He has now fucked me 2-3 times a week for the last 3 weeks.. he gives me 2 huge loads that take him about an hour and a half to deliver.. he is rock hard the whole time.. and quite aggressive while fucking me.. with him and my two hubby?s I am getting fucked very well.. so yes we can just fuck for the fun of fucking!!! I love getting fucked well!!! I think these guys have my number!!!

Once our conversations became more... personal, I came right out and told her that I was bisexual and now it was all about her accepting it or... losing her ever-loving mind.

"You are? Oh, tell me all about it! I want to hear about everything you've done with guys!" she said.

And I told her. All of it. She wanted to see me sucking a dick and I was able to arrange it and she got to see me doing it and she would tell me later, "That was such a turn-on for me!"

And, not for the first time, wishing that all women could be that okay knowing that the guy who's interested in her is bisexual.

Guys have asked, "How do I tell her without her getting mad?" and... you just tell her and if she gets mad, then she gets mad but since women like to demand total honesty from us, uh, yeah: Be careful what you ask for because you just might get it... and you might not like it.

I just didn't care if a woman knew this about me or not because even when I'd wind up facing a woman's wrath over this, nothing she could say or thinking about doing was going to change the fact that I am bisexual; I've always been bisexual and I will always be bisexual so if that means that we can't be together, well, that sucks and you're a hypocrite by saying that I had to accept you as-is... but you won't accept me as-is. Or telling me that I can't be bisexual. Or accuse me of cheating on you and, fuck, we haven't gotten to a point where a charge of cheating could be handed out and justified!

With some women, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. It's been a clusterfuck to end all clusterfucks when dealing with women but when they know and they're okay with it? Doesn't much get better than that and there's no need or reason to hide my thoughts and feelings about my desire to also have sex with men. The women who get it understand that my bisexuality has nothing to do with her and that, yeah, I am the way I am because I'm bisexual.

Indeed, I'd tell a woman that I was bi and if she objected - and most of them did and would - then, she's not someone I want to be associated with and more so when women have this habit of telling us guys that we have to accept them the way they are - and then expecting and demanding that we be the way they want us to be. Telling this was one thing but didn't really explain the women who knew that I was bisexual and especially if/when they didn't know anyone that I knew.

The woman I would have a life-changing "affair" with was on the phone with me and we're talking about the powerful chemistry between us and how we had to not give into it when she said, "I know that you're bisexual, by the way."

At first, I thought my wife had told her but I had a sense that my wife didn't mention it to her so, of course, I asked her how she knew.

"There's that something about you and it was easy for me to figure out and I gotta be honest: It excites the shit out of me and my panties are so wet I'm going to have to change them but, yeah, I know you are and... it's one of the things I love about you."

"It tells me that you know some stuff that other men don't know and are afraid of and what you know is also why we need to not do what we both know we have to do," she continued.

And... we failed. Miserably. I made love to her for an amazing five straight hours and in one moment when I was eating her very wet and juicy pussy, she said, "Eat my pussy like you suck cock!" and, well, that's what I'd been doing but I put some "extra" on it and would, hours later, make her tap out... and while I was still eating her pussy with the same energy and passion I have when I'm sucking dick.

When a woman is okay with me being bisexual, it's such a great relief because it's something that the majority of the women I have ever met... gets seriously offended over. I remember the day I told me girlfriend and soon-to-be wife that I was bisexual, and I'd had so much sex with guys - and being very fearful that she was going to dump me and... she didn't. All she said was, "I thought so." What made her think that?

That something about me that, at first, you can't quite put a finger on but if it's not that I'm gay, that means I'm... something very different. It didn't mean that we'd wind up having sex - but it was nice if we did - but, again, when you tell a woman this and she doesn't lose her freaking mind, it's like a huge breath of fresh air. And whether I told them or they "just knew it" went well toward what women I'd be happy to know... and those I should just forget that I ever met them.

I remember getting brave and telling a woman that I was bi and she let me ramble on for almost an hour before she said, "You ain't telling me anything I didn't already know about you."

Say what? Am I really that transparent? And realizing that to some women, they... see me. They feel me and the thing that makes me different from most other guys and, yeah, sometimes, they find it to be highly and sexually exciting. Or not.

The woman who'd become not only my lover but, eventually, my second poly wife had asked me, the second time we had sex, why and how was I so good at eating pussy and... I told her that if anything makes me good at it, it's that I know something about sucking dick. I... was scared that she was going to lose her shit and get rid of me but she said "Yeah... that would explain it."

I loved eating her because she had a huge clit and, to me, it was like sucking a dick and... yeah, after our second time having sex and me spending a serious amount of time eating her she said, "Oh, my god... you're dangerous." Indeed, the first time I went down on her, she started crying and I thought that I had hurt her but she said, "No one has ever done this to me in a way to make me feel the way I am now... and who the hell are you? And please don't stop making me feel this way!"

I've wondered that if I weren't a cocksucker, would I have been good at eating pussy? The jury was out but when I told her that I was bi, she was very okay with it. The same with the woman I'm with now, too.

"Eat my pussy."

The girl I was hanging out with and one I considered to be a platonic friend, said this and it surprised me.

"What makes you think I do that?" I asked.

"Because I know you suck dick and if you suck dick, you eat pussy to so, eat my pussy."

Oh, shit! Who told her that I sucked dick! It was on my mind as I got between her legs to eat a pussy I thought was off-limits to me. I ate her for a long time before she yelled at me to stop and fuck her.

Later - and after eating and fucking her again - I asked her who told her that I sucked dick and she said, "Nobody did - I just know that you do and you have a reputation for eating pussy and... I needed my pussy eaten."

"Okay," I said even if her logic didn't quite make sense to me. "But you said that we would never have sex!"

"And I changed my mind!" she said and rolled her eyes at me and as only girls could do. "I figured that if you suck dick, that's why other girls say you're so good at eating pussy and, yeah, you're really good at it and... eat my pussy again?"

She was the first girl who knew, somehow, that I was bi... and was okay with it. In the younger days, one of the things you did not ever tell anyone - and especially a girl - was that you went both ways. If they suspected it and asked, I'd categorically deny it; if someone did rat me out, I'd come up with some of the most creative lies that were crafted to discredit whoever let a girl know my secret... and then, I'd find them and have a conversation with them.

A woman I'm talking to changes the subject and asks, "You're bisexual, aren't you?" At this point in my life, I wasn't going to lie and say I wasn't - but I did want to know how she knew.

"Since we met, I've always felt that there was something different about you and it took me a while to figure it out," she said. "How does having sex with men fit into having sex with women for you?"

"It all just makes sense to me," I said. "Like, I'm eating a girl's pussy one day and it dawned on me that her clit was a smaller version of a dick and I know something about sucking dicks and tried a few things on her and, I'm guessing, to her delight and approval because I ate her so good that... she went to sleep."

"Well, that's what you guys are supposed to do," she said. "How does being bi make you feel?"

"Complete. Whole. Like there's nothing... missing," I said. "I know this is much more than sex but I'd be lying if I said that I didn't like the way I have sex... and I'm surprised that you're not offended."

"I'm not; guys like you fascinate me," she said. "You're very straight but, then again, not really and I've wondered how that works for guys like you."

"It just does," I said. "Um, uh, would you be interested in finding out how it works for me?"

She did but the thing I really took away from our conversation was that there really are women who find guys like me attractive and fascinating and all because we're straight and not so much at times.