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[QUOTE=bi42guy1958;279335]A little bio of myself to begin. I'm a DWM 56 yrs. old and have been bisexual since the age of 14 (first expierence). I have learned from my past expierences that when it comes to relationships and my being bisexual that honesty is always the best policy, or thought it was. I've been married 5 times and although not all my marriages ended because of my sexual orientation, the majority of them did. But again, I still believe honesty is best. So when I met this woman on a dating site(str8 site), we began to email first through the site, then progressed to text and then calling and talking. Everything was going great, we seemed to have a lot of the same interests and so forth, so we decided to meet and have lunch, get to know one another even more, which we set up for the next day. Through the night I got to thinking about things and decided it was best for both of us for me to just severe anything with her. My thoughts included how nice of a woman she was, how she would probably never accept my being bisexual/dressing. So maybe it was best to stop things before a lot more feelings got involved on both sides. I didn't want to mislead and hurt her later on. So I told her my feelings, not giving reasons but just that I had issues. Her response was, "it was her decision" as to whether she wanted to be involved with me given my issues. I pondered that for the night and next day and thought, hey she's right. So I asked if she was still interested and would like to go out and I would tell her everything! So last night we went out. Oh and not that this makes a difference, but it may to some that have an opinion, she is a black woman. Anyway, as we ate and talked, I started to tell her some of the issues I have in my non sexual life. My biggest ones are depression and how I'm affected by having an only son that is is prison (death row) and how it affects my every day thoughts. After having dinner we went out to the car when we bagan to talk more and I stated to her that what she has heard so far is not near as bad as what I really needed to tell her. I don't really know how I did it, but it just came out. "I'm bisexual and I like to wear women's attire" I said. I didn't get the "jaw dropping" affect as I thought, but no right out opinion right then either. So I continued with trying to explain things and how I feel about my sexuality. I started with, it's not an emotional attraction, but sexual. I don't look at a man and say "WOW, I'd like to do him" My attraction to a man is from the waist down to his knees, or really whats in between those points. I don't kiss men, no hugging, or anything that shows affection for a man. After having sex with a man, I feel disqusted with myself, went on to say that after sex I want the man to leave, that I got what I needed. And i know that sounds bad on my part toward the man, but I'm being honest here. But with a woman it is so different. I want the affection, I want and desire the kisses, hugs, cuddling, touching each other in an emoitional sense, both during and after sex. Matter of factly, with a woman it's "making love" not just sex! I want her to be there after, to cuddle, spoon or whatever we feel. I want her there the next morning to wakeup with, maybe even to do it ll over again. I also told her that if I could sit there and open up and tell her these things about me that I can be open and honest about everything. There are things that she could do to "help" me with these feelings, one being a strapon. Encouragement from her or support would go a long way in helping me curb the thoughts of being with a man. But unfortunetly, there can't be a replacement for the desires I have for performing oral on a guy. The only thing I can think of that I didn't tell her was that I'm very much in the closet with this part of my life. I don't have a hat that I wear that says "hey I'm bisexual"! But I think that's an important part that I should tell her. My question is......what else could I have said?[/QUOTE]
Electricity. I use that word a lot to describe that surge that goes through my body. It starts as a tingle from that point of contact, and like the branches of lightning, spreads through the rest of my body. But it doesn't always spread quickly and with a crack of thunder. Sometimes it's just the low rumble of thunder deep in the clouds, the type that's comforting, that rolls in with a gentle summer storm at night as you drift to sleep. Instead of that hit of electricity that dissipates just as quickly as it came, it's the drop of water in the pond that causes ripples that turns into waves. The waves don't always have to crash to shore, sometimes just rolling in gently is just as satisfying. It all starts with a touch. Fingertips to skin, lips on lips, no matter where, there's a point of contact. That point seems to be changed forever. I can close my eyes and still feel his kiss, the softness of his lips, my hands in his hair, his hands on my skin. All the energy in my body condenses to that spot, the front of my lips, where his touched mine. Without consciously thinking about it, I roll my tongue around in my mouth, and I remember the way he tasted. And in that moment, I yearn for it. Not for the sex, not for his skin, not even for his touch, just simply for that look in his eyes and his kiss. That warmth, that slow rippling electricity, that feeling of fullness in my soul, travels from my lips and over my body, from deep inside, out to my skin. It lands in several spots: down to my toes, along my back where his fingers skipped over my skin, my nipples harden under his phantom licks, to my pussy tightening and releasing under it's own accord. The orgasm surprises me in a slow creeping way. I relax, my breath deepens, and I enjoy the ride and the memory. I touch nothing, in fact, I cease to exist entirely. I am nothing but a ball of light, getting all of my energy from the memory of his lips. When I'm restored to a corporeal form, I'm afraid to open my eyes. In my mind, I'm remembering the look in his eyes, that deepness in them, and perhaps the reflection of my own light. Instead, I squint at the florescent lights of my office. When the phone rings, I'm brought back to reality entirely, and I shake off the memory before answering.
Okay, so here I am, a 49 yr old guy who's never been fucked anally by a man. I've been with a few guys, sucked some cock, had mine sucked too. But all the way? Sadly, not yet. Ive dildoed myself many time and it drives me wild and now I might be hooking up with a guy soon who wants to breed me. I understand the potential threat, but I'm clean and he claims to be too. What I need to know is this-can you feel when a guy shoots his load in you? I've heard stories both ways and I wonder what the sensation is like. I so want to go all the way with this guy, he makes me so horny and wet. Let me know.
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[FONT=Verdana]Most of us acknowledge the value of good communication as a preqequisite for good sex. Sometimes when I reflect back on my past sexual encounters I wonder, "What would have happened if only I had the courage to say this . . . or say that? What if I had simply told him (or her) "I liked this (or that) . . . would you do it?" or, "Would you like me to do this or that?" Of course some times we just do "it" - or have "it" done - without the need for any verbal expression. But my guess is that we all experienced times when we wished there had been more. We all miss opportunities. If you have ever come away from a sexual encounter wondering what might have - what could have been, listen up; this advice is for you. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]I submit the act of verbalizing desired sexual behaviors adds to the fullness of sexual enjoyment for both parties. One of my criticisms of most porn films is the absence of any meaningful dialogue among the participants. The only utterances one sometimes hears is the occasional grunt, or "Yeah!" "Yeah!" We can and should do better than that. We can and should be more communicative than the lower species of animals. And we should expect and encourage more verbalization from our partners too. It takes a conscious - and possibly courageous - choice on our part to be more verbal. But it can and should be done. The results can be surprisingly rewarding if you do it. You should take the risk of offending your partner. My bet is that they'll silently thank you for doing it and with any luck, they'll quickly surpass your ability in employing this acquired talent . . . the talent of talking dirty while having sex.[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]One dirty talking technique I employ I call "Elicit and response" (for want of a better expression) It happens like this:[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]Instead of simply - and minimally - stating "I love the way you are sucking my cock", I ASK, "Do you like sucking my cock?" And when he (or she) responds by simply nodding their heads, I [/FONT][B]instruct [/B][FONT=Verdana]them (for this is the learning moment.) [/FONT][B]I tell them[/B][FONT=Verdana] to back off my cock and restate the complete sentence I just uttered. [/FONT][B]I instruct them to say[/B][FONT=Verdana], "I love sucking your cock." Tell them to say it! Have them say clearly and out loud: "I love sucking your cock." Though initially surprised or hesitant, with luck they'll respond as requested and be grareful you gave them permission to actually say the words out loud. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]The principle is to have your partner repeat the complete sentence, not simply utter a yes or no, or nod or grunt. By having the other echo back the specific words, more verbalization is introduced and, believe me, it works. Both parties love it. The more explicit and "dirtier" the words used, the more heightened the positive effect. Words such as "cock", "suck", "prick", "fuck", "pussy", "asshole", etc. are all good. The dirtier, the better. Go there - and repeat the same words frequently if necessary. Saying anything is better that saying nothing. Talk dirty and talk dirty often. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]For most of us, the more uninhibited the sexual practices we employ, the greater the pleasure. When we were young we were all instructed to avoid engaging in all kinds of taboo behaviors. Among these was the injunction: "Don't say that; it's dirty!" Avoidance of talking dirty to your partner while in the bedroom is simply another taboo to shed. We've had the courage to shed other prohibitions, so we should add this to our list of accomplishments; it will yield richer experiences for both you and your partner. Try it; you'll like it.[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]As a concluding note let me add the following. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]One of the funniest lines I ever heard delivered on TV was uttered by the actress Cloris Leachman who played the role of a girlfriend to Mary Tyler Moore on that old great show bearing Mary's name. Cloris's character was married to a never-shown husband called Lars. In response to Mary's complaint that she, Mary, was lonely, Cloris responded, "Mary, you don't know what loneliness is until you've slept with Lars." [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]Don't be a Lars; talk. And talk dirty.[/FONT]
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