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[COLOR=#444444][FONT=Verdana]as u might know i'm exploring bisexuality. i don't know how much of this i mean since i'm still questioning & confused. i did my best to let my inhibitions go & this is what came out. let me know what u think!
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[COLOR=#444444][FONT=Verdana]My dear, loving First:

For many years I have been sexually confused. From the age of 22 I realized a desire for members of the same sex, & I couldn't accept this. For a long time I struggled with this realization. Slowly, thanks to the help of my own thinking about it & people that I know from the internet, I began to accept this part of my personality. I reasoned that I have freedom in matters of personal sexuality, and so I'm allowed to be a bisexual. Once in my life I would never allow or even imagine myself to want homosexual experience. I considered it a perversion at least for me personally. But now I am with You, having lived through many ideas, difficulties, frustrations, confusions, denials, moments of being convinced & acceptance. It has come to the point that I'm able to tell You I like guys.

But until this time that is all theoretical. Now I am in the presence of a man to whom I intend to give my homosexual virginity, so to speak. I beg You for patience & understanding. This is the biggest step so far in the road of my sexuality & perhaps my whole life. Though in my thoughts this is all OK, when another person takes part in this the confusion & doubt will most likely return. I will definitely be very nervous. But there's probably no other way. All that I can do is prepare myself mentally, make peace with my feelings, & go for it. Please understand that I might feel uncomfortable & decide against it. Don't be disappointed in me & don't take it the wrong way. It means I'm not ready & the time hasn't come yet. But I'm determined I will have this experience. I have dreamed about this from the age of 22 & I won't have peace until I experience this. This means there will be another opportunity for this. On the other hand, if I do agree to go ahead, this means that I have trust in You & I desire You.

If we go forth together, be gentle with me, both physically because we will be doing things which my body is probably not prepared for, & emotionally because this is a huge step for me as I have written before. But also challenge me to take part, to openness, to learn, to pleasure. Kiss me, often. Let this be about more than the orgasm. Anybody can take care of that by themselves. Invite me to a mutual, personal partaking of bodily adventure. Make me feel comfortable, so that the nervousness & uncertainty change into eagerness & closeness. Make it so I feel comfortable desiring You. Let's undress slowly. Take me in Your arms & kiss me passionately, leading me to want to give myself to You on this night completely. Be intense but also playful. This is about a life experience but also fun. Gaze directly into my eyes when You finally enter me. In that moment I belong to You, Lover. Do it slowly & gently at first, kissing me, assuring me that this is allowable, healthy, natural, beautiful & pleasant.

When we finish I don't know in what state I'll be in. If I want to leave right away, let me. That would mean I have to think this through myself. If I cry, let me cuddle up to You. Don't reject me, but take me & let me cry my eyes out with You. Assure me it's all right. Then let's cuddle up together & fall asleep, body in body, feeling each other's breath.

When morning comes express to me You're proud of me that I decided to do something out of the ordinary & outside my comfort zone, & was able to do it. Remind me I'm now an experienced bisexual. That will probably still be a shock to me. Maybe I'll break down & cry then, so again let me cuddle up next to You if I do. Or maybe I'll have a desire for some more mutual play.

I don't know if I will want to make another date to meet. If I don't, know I'm very grateful for Your attention, care & body. If we both agree, we can meet again. But know if we start seeing each other I might fall in love with You. This would be on an extremely higher level than gay sex. But I don't have anything planned other than a pleasant time spent with You.

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hi, want some advise. I am trying to find a friend for NSA fun, someone to meet every so often for mutual satisfaction. Nothing crazy, always safe!! I have a decent, or so I think sized cock, good looking and muscular body. I am very well educated. Please help!!

i want to be with a man so bad! I fantasize about touching a big hard cock, sucking it too!!

Married middle aged fit bisexual man.
I enjoy sex with my wife but want a friend with benefits in the area.
I have tried everything once abd would be willing to do anything safely with another honest attractive married man.

i think everyone who is open to sex should consider a homosexual experiance at least once in there lifetime. i think it’s a good way to explore urself sexually. after all, the person u would be having an experiance with would be the same sex as u, so u2 would have parts of sexuality in common. u can then take what u learn & discover to bed with someone of the opposite sex if u swing that way.
ive said this before & i’ll probably say it again until the day i die, there is nothing more erotic, more sensual, more beautiful sexually than 2 females sharing intimacy. they are so in tune with each other’s rhythm & they know how to touch each other in a way a male never will. involving a male would taint the experiance. it’s probably the closest thing to pure sex you can get! it is really special & if it’s as great of an experiance as i think it is, i would not any woman to be denied it, it would be important to experiance it & on some level the most pleasure she will ever feel.
but it would be hypocritical to praise female homosexual encounters without considering a male 1 might also be exceptional. there’s something to be said about a sexual experiance with 2 males too. there’s still that level of familiarity. there might also be a level of practicality. u both know what u like as men, so ur in a better position to give it to each other right away.

So I'd really like to find a safe steady married guy for a fab situation. Just hard as hell finding the right guy. I see all the ads and posts here and I KNOW there's guys out there fantasizing about the same thing. So I've answered ads,posted my own, I'm a good looking guy in good shape, still nothing. Is everyone just flakes?
How do I find a reliable safe guy?

i think it's awesome there are people who have sex with people of both sexes. in societies where homosexual contact is at least discouraged on so many levels, there are people who realize there is no good reason to forbid activity with members of ur own sex. or even to fall in love! after all sex isn't just for making babies, it's damn fun too! and if u like to have fun with the same sex & the opposite sex, what's the big deal? some people try both ways & hate it, some love it & there are people in between with each sex. but the point is, they have dared to reject the idea ur not allowed to do things just because of someone's gender. or maybe they have grown up in an environment where it was never questioned. either way i think it's awesome people have been with both sexes! i admire, respect & salute all of u! <3
(and hopefully i'll get to have sex with some of u too lol!)

After 30 plus years married to my magnificent wife, and giving me many years of fabulous sex, we often talk about our sexual exploits when we are apart. Since opening our marriage a couple of years ago things have worked out and seems to be getting stronger. At home we have certain people who we frequently enjoy in our bed that we both know and are very comfortable with. Both she and I travel as well for our jobs and we both have cultivated sexual relationships while traveling. That said I frequently get to certain areas that allow me to spend a lot of time doing what I like doing best, sucking cock and getting laid. My sexual exploits are I’m submissive and always willing.

My my wife has often asked me if I were a women would I be a whore? The answer is yes I would be, I would seek out every stiff dick out there that needed to be taken care of. She knows that when I’m home my buddy stops over daily to get his cock drained. Mostly early mornings before she even gets up.

My wife is traveling this this week and she has a couple of men lined up so she don’t get lonely and she looks forward to having some play time with them. The reality of this whole thing is that after many many years of being in a tight married situation we are both excercising our new found freedom to be as slutty as we want. So as I travel I am always seeking out my contacts for private fun time whether male or female I take care of them all.

But as for the title, if I were a women, I would be fucking and sucking every cock that I could . Women have it much easier than men, all they have to do is say want to fuck and they get laid.

A couple of years ago I had traveled out to California with some friends. One night we went to a swingers club for anyone and everyone. I was getting drunk at the bar and taking in all of what it had to see. Hoping I would see a thick hard shaved cock. I was mainly searching for a hot kinky couple with a very dominating role making me their sex slaves. I followed a sexy couple up the stairs after they had motioned for me to follow them. We found an empty room and they began to humiliate me and force me to lick and suck both their cock and super wet pussy. I was so into it I must have come a dozen times without any touching from them at all. I swallowed warm sticky load of man jizz and a face full of squirting cunt cum. When we we had all we could we dressed and walked down the stairs only to receive a standing ovation. What I hadn't realized is that there were CCTV i all rooms and monitors too.