As a society in general, the term date, along with dating has been so overused, there is no meaning to the word. Dictionaries can define the word, but those definitions are useless today, and have been useless for a long time. Recently, I joined a "traditional" dating site. I put the word traditional in quotes, because it is your standard dating for serious people looking for long term relationships, yada-yada. It is a paid site. My rational, and reason, being if someone is on the site, that woman is serious about actually meeting a man. Sad part, nothing for actual bisexual dating. Who says I don't want to date men? Just not romantically, which is why I put "traditional" in quotes. This is where I get into the concept of non-traditional dating. Hook ups, fuck buddies, and booty calls are not really relationships, and would in some sense not fall under the whole concept of dating. I spent the money for three months on the "traditional" site. After two weeks, only one response from a woman. I keep journals of sorts when I am dating. Thoughts, feelings, any information my future self might find pertinent. So far, things are the same as my past self wrote about. It is a numbers game. This is why I only gave myself three months. After that point, all the women I am interested in have been emailed, and no response means not interested. The women whom responded I have met personally or been stood up, and I have either entered into a relationship or I am still single. At three months the dating sites are not getting enough "new" women joining to be worth the effort to send an email. Women on the "traditional" dating site have their own ideas, and so I might not fall into what they want. I would say maybe one out of every three women I view conform to my concept of someone I might want to date. Given that I might fall into an even smaller percentage of a woman's concept of what she wants to date, the odds overall are slim for a response. As stated above, I only gave myself three months, because this is where the odds will nose dive into near nothing of getting a response. One of the things dating sites do is allow people to join for free. "Freeloaders" is the term I use for these people. Really insulting on dating sites where one pays, you can pay for "freeloaders" to contact you. WTF? Dating sites use freeloaders to pump up the numbers. Millions of people have joined our site. Really? How many are freeloaders? Dating sites won't tell you. Because paying people are dumb enough to pay, are they dumb enough to pay more? Maybe? Not me. Been there, done that. The only time I might pay for a "freeloader" to contact me is if I am on a non-traditional dating site. A hookup site. The concept that someone is not good enough to fuck because they are too cheap to pay is stupid. The person might be serious about sex, but not dating. Follow my thoughts for a moment. A person on a traditional site is not really serious if that person is not going to pay. If someone is joining a traditional dating site for free and counting on someone else paying, that person is fishing. Fishing for someone gullible and willing to spend money to meet someone. Which translates into spending money to woo and scrape and bow. Sucker. A person on a non-traditional site whom is not willing to pay might be serious about hooking up, that person is seeing how serious you are willing to hookup. People on hookup sites play different games. My thoughts at the time of joining a dating site was to join both a traditional site and non-traditional site to see what type of response I get. Paying for freeloaders on the non-traditional site as well. Reality set in, in the world of financial outlay. Granted the money per month is small, but all dating sites make you pay the three months up front for the savings. Now it gets expensive. Joining month to month is much more expensive when you are only giving yourself a certain time frame. If things do not work out for the traditional dating site within a certain length of time, I have already decided to join a non-traditional site. This time, I will join as a bisexual instead of just heterosexual. Thoughts and comments welcome, I do not come onto this site as often as I want, so I may not respond promptly.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]52132[/ATTACH] 32 yo straight guy that will be a repeat
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]He releases me and we're both lying there gasping like fish out of water - I needed this real bad and I'm thinking that I'm good to go now - just one last thing to take care of before I head back home. I gotta suck that dick again and I know his foreskin will save him from that crazy-assed sensitivity thing and as I move to get into position to eat his cock again, oh, boy, he looks scared and I almost laugh - he thought I was done with him and to be honest, I thought I was, too. He's asking me not to do this to him again, that he can't take it... but his cock is saying otherwise and I give him a silent nod of appreciation to feel him getting hard in my mouth. He's trying to resist but I felt it in his body the moment he gave up and submitted to getting sucked off a second time. My own dick is starting to stir again, something I find interesting but, okay, that's a good thing and it isn't long before I feel him tugging on me so he can get at my dick again. I'm still sensitive as fuck... but I manage to ignore it and I groan against his cock in my mouth as he starts sucking on me; I know it's gonna take a while before I can cum again and I'm actually hoping it's gonna take him a while, too, because his dick tastes so wonderful. My mind kinda shuts down; there's nothing but his cock in my mouth and mine in his and, to me, the next thing I know, he's blowing another load for me to swallow and I'm not too far behind him and it was all incredibly delicious and I hope he thinks so as well. We get untangled... and he's looking at me like I just tried to kill him; he manages to laugh a little and says, "I don't think I can do this a third time..." "That's fine," I said, sitting up and feeling the room spin a little as the blood starts flowing back to my brain again. "Thank you for this - you don't know how much I needed it. He just nods as I get out of the bed and go hunting for my clothes; I don't remember when I lost my shirt but it's here somewhere. I can feel him watching me getting dressed and I like that feeling. Before I head out, I thank him again and he says, "Maybe we can do this again some time?" "I'd like that," I said. "Maybe next time, um, we can - well, you wouldn't mind fucking me, would you?" he asked. "I don't mind if you don't," I said. "It's kinda my thing," he says while blushing a really cute shade of red. "Hmm; you shoulda told me that before now," I said with a smile. Truthfully, I'm not that much of a fan of fucking guys these days but for him, yeah, I'll make an exception. On the way back home, I'm thinking that in a couple of days, I'll get a message from him. I'll go to him, suck his balls dry, then empty my balls in his ass and I think this just might be a little more than a one-night fling for either of us. We'll see...[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]Fine. Whatever. I follow him to the bedroom and he lies down... and I invert myself and put my dick right in his face; he got the hint and started sucking me and I went back to work on him, letting my lust carry me away while pushing him closer to the edge so I can shove him right over the side. He doesn't want to cum; I can feel how tense he is and he's losing focus - he's not sucking me as vigorously as he was just a moment ago but that's fine; I like the way he tastes and really start to give him the business so he can lose his battle to hold onto his sperm for as long as he can. He's moaning, groaning, fucking into my mouth and I use a finger to tickle his back door and - voila! Maybe he'd been saving that nut up for a moment like this or something but his cock swells just a tiny bit before he unleashes a whole of lot of spunk into my mouth and I take it as if I was starving... and that ain't too far from the truth, to be honest. He finally stops pumping sperm into my mouth and begins to soften; my hunger for cock has been fed and part of me doesn't give a fuck if he finishes sucking me off or not. But he goes back down on me; I can feel his body still trembling from his release and he's doing his best to eat as much of my dick as he can manage. Usually, I'm very considerate when getting my dick sucked; I might fuck into the guy's mouth but not aggressively so; I've had more than my share of moments of guys gagging and throwing up on me. I usually don't even put my hands on the guy's head and "urge" him to keep right on sucking - he knows how to suck a dick and doesn't need my help. Not tonight, though. I'm holding his head gently but firmly and thrusting into his mouth and just deep enough to watch his cheeks puff out; I'm not even talking to him which is kinda unusual for me but sometimes, eh, I just don't have anything to say as I watch him suck my dick. He's struggling and a part of me feels sorry for him... but I need to cum and tell him that I'm getting really close. Yeah... not that much of an asshole that I won't warn a guy about that. I'm sliding the head of my dick in and out of his mouth and it feels really good and I say something like, "Here it comes...;" my dick swells up and he grunts and his cheeks puff out as I shoot into his mouth and, god, do I love busting a nut in someone's mouth; it's so intense it's almost painful and I'm barely aware of how hard he's breathing - or trying to breathe - as I empty my balls into his mouth.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I needed to suck some dick so I opened my A4A app, knowing that all I had to do was just wait for a few minutes and some guy will hit me with a smile or a "what's up" and sure enough, a guy less than a mile from me smiled and even sent me a note that was a whole sentence, asking me what I was interested in. I told him I wanted to suck and be sucked and I could be where he was in less than five minutes if he was good with that - and he was. Abnormal for me, I didn't want to get into a long, drawn out conversation and didn't even bother to ask the usual questions, i.e., cock size (which I don't care about) cut or uncut, swallow or not - I'm not sure what he was thinking but I had a great urge to make him call his momma to save him. I got there and we spent a couple of get to know you moments and I was unusual impatient - but I guess he could sense it as he stepped out of his shorts (he'd been going commando, I guess) and revealing a nice, uncut cock. Now, I've always had a thing about uncut dicks but I'm a big boy now and, ugly or not, that dick was getting sucked. I stepped out of my shorts and underwear and I'm already hard just thinking about what he's gonna taste like. He sat on the sofa and waved me over to stand before him while he examined my junk which I understood but, um, I was wishing he'd lay back so I could feast on his dick! He's telling me how much he loves Black cock and I've heard it all before and my impatience gets the best of me; I give him a gentle shove onto his side, then get between his legs, settle in, peel that foreskin back, and feed on his dick. I'm not getting started good and he's calling on God and Jesus; he feels good in my mouth and I take him deep over and over before giving him a small break and do some work on his nuts which are already tight against his body. He's not gonna last much longer and maybe he knows that I know this because he suggests we get in his bed to finish things.[/SIZE][/FONT]
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[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]What I've wondered is whether or not this is just a learned behavior and even when someone doesn't have that much experience in things M2M, we just assume that younger or older is either better or worse and by some default. Yeah, younger guys can be a pain in the ass (and beyond the literal sense) and older guys can just be too set in their ways... but you find younger guys with an "old guy" mindset and older guys who are more fickle and all over the place than younger guys can be and, as such, appearing to lack maturity. I learned, through all of this, to keep it simple: The guy has to be legally old enough to consent to sex, be clean and healthy and not my idea of an asshole; not too many guys meet that last requirement and some of them fail to meet it because they have some uncool thoughts about someone my age... and they don't really know why they do and more so with those guys who've never had an experience with someone "old enough to be their daddy." It's not to say that some guys have had bad experiences with someone much older than they are... they have; but perhaps they assume that one bad experience with a much older guy means that any future experiences will be just as bad... and that doesn't make a lot of sense [B]if [/B]you really understand what's going on and how a lot of this is situational or conditional; whatever happened took place at that time, in that place, with this person... and tomorrow is another day and you could do it with that guy again... and things can be very different... but few are willing to "take that chance;" it was bad before, it's always gonna be bad and gets worse when while they're looking for a dick to play with, a lot of the dicks available are of an age that, if nothing else, stirs up bad memories. Not saying that some of us have good reason to discriminate because of age; I just know that some of us do it and don't even know why they're doing it; it's their preference and that's all to be said about it and it's non-negotiable and it's such a stance that could be responsible for a lot of men not having the sex they crave in this or being able to find that one guy who can be as much of a steady partner as possible. Just my two cents on this numbers game thing.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]It's one thing to be able to sit back and watch this game being played... another thing to find yourself subjected to it and getting kicked to the curb or otherwise ignored and simply because you're too old or too young, depending on who you were talking to... or trying to talk to. Before the Internet and the WWW, you'd just somehow manage to run into a guy who wanted to do something and find out in that moment that you were too old/young for them... but the apps and websites make it all too easy to find out how old a guy is - or isn't - and even if some guys try to beat the odds and lie about their age and, as such, the greater the chance for one to be subjected to this ongoing age discrimination. Even here on this site, there are hundreds of posts about preferring younger guys over older guys (and the other way around) and that, all by itself, is proof of the ongoing age discrimination that's being covered up under being one's preference... but the devil is always in the details and even guys here will let you know why they prefer younger over older or older over younger. I have a friend who I've been mentoring in the ways of dick and even he admits that he prefers guys my age over guys his age and younger, citing both maturity and greater life experiences as the reason why he wouldn't be eager to jump into bed with, say, a 20-something and someone, according to him, lacks maturity and experience. And we just assume this, don't we? Old guys like me are way over the hill; can't get it up, can't last all night long, and other such stuff; younger guys are just clueless, inexperienced, immature and guys our own age, well, we have a lot in common with each other in some aspects but, nah, give us someone either older or "way younger" - but not below legal requirements - and that's the ticket. Those men who have that age preference often has me asking a question: Do you know how much sex you're missing out on by playing the numbers game? Don't get me wrong: I understand the whole "gotta have a connection" thing many of us insist upon just as I understand the whole preference thing... but for those guys looking for a FWB, a younger or older guy just might be the guy you can start something with and even keep it going for a while - and provided that there aren't other things such men have going on in their lives - ya still gotta take care of the business of maintaining your life and all that. I get dissed by young guys... and I just laugh at them; I've gotten more sex by accident than they have on purpose and chances are I've forgotten more about sex than they've ever learned but for many, nah, disqualified because of my age. It seems to me that we - generally - want the kind of guy who is either very willing and eager to learn the ropes or someone who's been there, done that, and with closets full of T-shirts because while shit like stamina are of interest, it's the older guy's experience that, more often than not, comes to the front and can make sex or even establishing a FWB, theoretically, more preferable. Realistically, that's not the case - and it's never been the case... and you just gotta ask if this ongoing age discrimination really makes sense and the sad part is that for many, many men, it does make sense... when it probably shouldn't.[/SIZE][/FONT]
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