[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I've given so many guys their first experience and it never fails to amaze me to see how they react to it, from chickening out at the very last moment to throwing up and breaking down and crying during and/or after the fact and if I haven't learned anything from this, it's that when you're giving a guy his first time, you want and need to take good care of him and I don't mean by just giving him a mindblowing blow job or a good fucking. I've finished with guys and have heard them say, "That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!" or "I don't know why I never did this before now!" and sometimes I've had them tell me that they had a chance to do it before but they didn't - and now they're a little pissed off that they passed on that earlier opportunity. I've even talked to and gotten with guys who had an earlier experience but were "traumatized" by it... but now they wanted to go for it again like one guy who grew up with three very horny brothers and they made him their sex toy and at every chance they could. It really fucked with his head but I can only say that after he had a lot of years to think about it, well, it was what it was... but that didn't mean that they couldn't do it again and more so when they wanted to. That guy told me later, "It's like riding a bike, ain't it?"[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]One of the things that has always fascinated me is a guy's first time having sex with another guy, not because it's hot and exciting to read or hear about it, but because it lends itself to me better understanding why I am the way I am. I've heard a lot of first-time stories and have "starred" in a lot of guys' first time stories, from being very young to being older - and a lot older - and while everyone's first time is different, when you know about as many first-time stories as I do, you start to see patterns emerging and it's always been fun for me to try and make sense of what I've seen over my life to date when it comes to this. Some guys hate it... at first; maybe their first time happened in a, um, less than preferred way like being taken by a relative, a close friend, or a total stranger but later, hmm, asking themselves if it was really as bad as they first thought it was - then determining that it really wasn't. Some guys take to it like fish to water; it's new, exciting, forbidden but, yeah, holy shit - it was terribly exciting and who knew that it would be? Some guys live large portions of their lives either never experimenting and not even giving a single thought about going there even though they know that guys do this to each other but that's those guys and not themselves... then, one day, they're "that guy" and they find themselves doing something they could have never imagined happening... and they liked it even though they convinced themselves that it was impossible.[/SIZE][/FONT]
My bi lifestyle wouldn’t be possible without the support of my wife of 33years. Being empty nesters and having grandkids sex sometimes got put on the back burner. After our kids finished collage and started their careers our weekends consisted of household chores and occasional hot sex. In the past 3 years since coming out to each other our sex lives have litterly exploded. I no longer have to hide my love for cock and she no longer has to hide her girlfriends. Both she and I are getting all the dick and pussy we can handle, and we have cultivated a nice circle of like minded people we are comfortable with. Joining our current swingers group is one of the funnest things she and I participate in. Besides our group settings we also play with them individually and even get to service some of her friends outside our group. Sharing my wife with my buddy has become a regular 2 or 3 times a week thing. I gotta say that it makes me super hard seeing her bent over the bed taking his huge cock, I’m there to lick his his balls as he is pounding her and tasting his sweet cum as he shoots it deep. The wife is amazed that even though we are very similar in cock size, she says that we both fuck her totally different, she often says that blindfolded she could identify who is fucking her. Her petite little pussy gets used often and she loves it. She has a like minded friend who she turned me onto about a year ago, single professional no time for a boyfriend just a fuck toy and I fill that ticket. She has been a once a week get together for over a year now. Sometimes it’s a 3some with these 2 hot women and myself. Watching my wife eat my cum out of her pussy always gets me ready for round 2. So it goes without saying without her approval my sex life would be in the tank.
I have had the pleasure a few times of eating shaved pussy. It just tastes better somehow. But I am yet to suck a shaved cock and balls. I trim my own, but the look of them completely shaved is just so good. I think it is becoming more fashionable. I hope so.
The steam room that I have visited a couple of times apparently has a younger crowd on certain nights. I can imagine older guys like me go there looking for some young cock. I can understand why. On my knees while a college student type fucks my mouth sounds very pleasurable indeed.
I have not been fucked for a long time. Since my early twenties. I really am feeling the urge for some guy to use my ass for his release. To fuck me hard. I would moan in pleasure, wanting him to fill me with his cum. All the porn I watch just makes it worse. Watching older men, on all fours, or on their backs, taking some guy's big hard cock..
I want to try sucking a cock so bad! I am near Eureka,Ca and can come to you. Please be clean and disease free...... Lacypanties
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]The next day, all that happened was two friends just sitting and talking and, at one point, I asked him if he felt like sucking my dick and he said, "Nope - not one bit. What the fuck is going on with this?" "I don't have a clue," I admitted. "But if this really bothers you, we don't have to get high together, ya know? We can still hang out and all that." "It doesn't really bother me - well, it does - but because I can't explain it and you're the smartest guy I know and you can't explain it!" he said. He eventually left and I didn't see him for almost two weeks and in that time I tried to find out if weed could remove someone's inhibitions like booze could but there wasn't much information at that time; people got high and either had sex or they didn't but I suspected that really good weed could remove inhibitions... because nothing else made sense. We run into each other again and, yup, he's got some Gold... but this time, he said, "I want us to get high together... because I haven't sucked your dick in two weeks... and I need to. Still don't know it's just you - I just know I need to unless you ain't okay with it." "Whatever happens, happens," I said. We go back to his place, fired up a joint and, yep, he practically tackled me to the floor and wound up breaking the zipper on my pants so he could get at my dick; we're going at each other in a frenzy and I could hear him muttering to himself, "This dick is so good!" right along with "I don't know why I gotta suck his dick!" I still couldn't figure it out. Later, I talked to some of our other friends we'd get high with and discretely asked how our friend behaved when he was one-on-one with them and none of them said that he did or said anything unusual other than getting high and being all mellowed out. It got stranger and stranger in my mind because I couldn't explain his fixation on just sucking my dick, even after asking him - while we weren't high - how he felt about me... and nothing he said lent itself to why he had to blow me when we smoke the good shit. Never the mediocre shit and never when we were just drinking. Introduce some Red or some Gold and it was a given we'd spend the majority of our time together sucking each other dry and raw. I'd compare this with the other times I'd hung out with guys (in particular), we got all fucked up, and dicks wound up being sucked and even recalled one time where a bunch of us hooked up, got smoked up, and the only guys not sucking dick were him and I - we both just sat and watched the other guys. But when it just was just the two of us and some damned good weed? Very intense cock sucking happened and I eventually chalked it up to his brain just operating very differently even though I really didn't understand it. He never wanted to fuck or be fucked - that had been cleared up early on in this and once, I asked him to try to blow me when he wasn't high - and he couldn't even touch my dick. Just one of those weird things that defied explanation and something that I've never seen again in anyone...[/SIZE][/FONT]