anal, an acquired taste?

[mrplayfuluk]

I come across so many bi guys who aren't really into anal but everything else is doable, how about you? if its off putting to you why is it and if you are into it were you from the start or is it an acquired taste?

[stormalong]

I've only been with a couple guys, but I've found the same to be true. I was in an MMF relationship for a couple weeks, but SHE was the one to perform anally. She did both of us a couple times.. One guy friend tried when I requested it, but said I was too tight. I'm more of a bottom, but he didn't want me to do him. I don't know what the aversion is.

ole Stormy

[smokey]

Anal was part of my first sexual encounter with another man and he was a good teacher. The feeling was intense and I have enjoyed it ever since, top, bottom, male or female. Visually a woman's nice smooth and round ass it a lot more fun to slide into than some guy's hairy butt, but then I prefer women to me generally speaking. Also if a guy I am with has (heaven forbid) a small dick, I will not offer him my ass though I will do his but if he has an average sized to large one, I am bent over in a heartbeat. Rimming is also a large part of my anal play....I like to do it before the ass has been penetrated but also like to pull out at times and (if its clean) chow down on the loosened hole as well. I have also been known to eat my cum out of a pretty ass (so long as its clean) as well.

[Solomon]

personally, i've experimented with anal, but not with a man yet.

on a medical note, from what i understand there's alot of bacteria an stuff there.

on a personal note just from what i've tried so far it can really hurt, but i've also had pleasure too, and yet when ya think of what comes outta there it's a bit averting in that respect to me but i still like so far playing... so i guess i'm still experimenting with it don't have any clear answers for me yet.

[welickit]

This is like discussing the chicken or egg that came first. I suspect our profile pictures state our point of view.

[DiamondDog]

I don't dislike anal sex, it doesn't disgust me, I'm just not that into it, and I'd rather make out and j/o, do oral sex instead, nipple play, CBT, maybe rimming (this is assuming everything's clean inside and out and I know him well), or do some bondage/SM.

I've sometimes have frequent dreams about fucking guys or I find it hot in some porns (like this cop porn I have where there's a lot of spanking and both men are into each other). I've had men finger me and I can take that but only when I REALLY want to and I have to be in the right mood for it.

A friend of mine could start out with a few fingers and his first dildo was a 7" one and I can't even take a bullet vibrator or a small plug I have, and the most I can take would be a finger or maybe a tongue.

I suppose if I were to fuck someone I'd want him to be a boyfriend/partner/husband and I think I'd only want to do it every so often, maybe once a year or a few times a year, not all the time. I'd do it to please him and because he wanted it. I would probably be more into putting plugs/vibrators covered with latex that I own into someone or maybe even a fist with a latex glove on it, as those things seem more safer to me.

Anal sex isn't a requirement for being queer or having sex with men.

It's a personal choice and believe it or not there are even gay/bi men that don't suck dick since they don't like to, they find it gross, or they're not into giving oral sex. There are even queer men who don't like reciving oral sex and only like giving it.

I have gay friends who aren't into anal sex at all. They and their partner(s) don't do anal sex since they think that it's being unimaginative about sex and basically improvising heterosexual sex, and neither identify with the role of top or bottom.

I have other queer friends who don't do anal sex simply because they see it as being very high risk for HIV and other STDs, as condoms do break, and anal warts can be easily spread this way.

A friend of mine says how I'm a top but I don't really go by that label/role, and even for BDSM I say I'm a switch that leans towards the dominant side.

I get kind of annoyed at how some men expect that in every single sexual encounter that they have to be plowed or bred, and that if they don't get fucked that the entire experience is a let down.

[LoveLion]

ON on the fence here. I have never had anal, and the idea both excites me and scares me.

I think I would like to do it with someone I truly loved, but I wouldnt want to do it with just some guy.

Also I would want it to be very clean. Deffinalty would wash myself out before having it and would want to use a condom, at least for the first little while.

[dans94]

mmmm, anal!! It is an acquired taste, but easily acquired. If you haven't played with your own ass, you should give it a try. There are many nerve endings there that feel absolutely fabulous. Plus, you have the prostate that will drive you up the walls when properly massaged. I agree with everyone so far though, it has to be very clean. I'm definately not into scat. Piss yes, scat no.

Since I don't get emotionally involved with guys, having that fulfilled with my wife, it is purely physical enjoyment with me. There not being anything more taboo in our 'sic' society has a certain appeal to me also.

I personally don't believe anyone who says they're too tight for anal. This is mainly because everyone has had a bout of constipation sometime during their lives and lived through it. In fact, a bout of constipation is what opened my eyes to the possibilities of anal sex. I actually got an incredible errection during such a bout. Having a good (great) anal experience is pretty much like all acts of sex, in the head.

I would recommend being introduced to the pleasures of anal by getting a sensual massage. The person giving the massage should take their time and give a general full body massage allowing their hands and fingers to occasionally glide over the anus. Kneeding the buttocks is also very stimulating and relaxing at the same time. Once the full body has been massaged you should concentrate on the anal/genital area. With the man on his stomach, slide a well oiled hand between his thighs and oil up his cock and balls. If they are pressed against his stomach pull them down so the cock is pointing toward the feet. Sometimes a pillow placed under the stomach makes this more comfortable. With the legs parted enough to allow access to the genitals, apply a generous amount of oil by gliding your fingers from the tip of the cock down the shaft, over the balls, and up through the crack of the ass to the tail bone. Do this in a motion of one hand over the other like you're dog paddling. When you reach the anal area apply slightly more pressure with your finger to the anus. It should give way slightly after a few to several strokes. If a guy doesn't thoroughly enjoy this, I'd have to wonder about his ability to accept pleasure. If you keep this massage sequence going long enough, the guy should have a huge orgasm. :D If he doesn't, try applying pressure to the anus with your knuckles and your thumb against his perinium while stroking his cock lightly. This can be interupted occasionaly with a vigorous kneeding of his buttocks. Ahhh, this in itself is very erotic, at least to me.

Let me know if you give this massage technique a try. I'm sure it will be enjoyed and the taste for more acquired.

Dan

PS: If you like, I can give some pointers into a delicious prostate massage.

Sorry for the long post, it's one of my favorite subjects.

[but that's my name!!]

I love it, 'tis a must have for me. The first time I had it 'twas crap 'cos it hurt due to me not being ready for it and a lack of lube but the second, the same day was when I was hooked, anal orgasms are the best. :bigrin:

[biwords]

Great post, dans94. And I for one would love to read your tips on prostate massage, anytime you feel like sharing. Thanks!

[Cerealk]

Just like biwords said, feel free to share, sounds interesting =P

[hairless]

I for one have'nt tried anal with another guy yet. But I have fingered my ass and used my wfe's viberator on my ass. I found it interesting and can'nt wait to have a guy fuck my ass.

[matterinhand]

The only thing i get out of anyone playing with my arse is a strong urge to go to the toilet.
Now personally, that is NOT a sexul feeling. All i want to do is relieve the urge by getting rid of the finger or object like I would if i was constipated..
I know other people enjoy it, my wife loves anal, we had a mmf where I gave the other man anal (to her obvious delight), and mail on here shows me that I must be missing something, but just as people choose not to do BDSM, or leather, or latex, I choose not to take anal.

[Domino]

Guy's G spot in in their arse, so I wonder if it's because the Bi man, is more open about it, were is the straight man would be worried about being perceived as gay if they liked it too much.

[JLR1976]

I love, love, love recieving anal sex..... I could never be totally straight because i simply love the feeling of a cock in my arse... nice and slow and deep

[kimmymale]

Since I am a man who has had his live-in girlfriend turn him on to giving me a prostate massage, I would love to hear your technique to see if there might be a way that is even more satisfing. For every man that is reading this post, and is so mucho to say that he would never let anyone touch or penetrate his ass, I really feel sorry for. You will go to your grave NEVER knowing what a male g-spot orgasm could feel like! What a pitty that we all were raised to think the ass is a Taboo place that only gay people could enjoy. I am defanantly NOT gay! But I can tell you that I absouluty crave the mind blowing, earth shattering, orgasm that is achieved when my prostate is being massaged! Men, if you haven't tried it, there are plenty of sites that can give you a gentle way to get it started the right way without pain. Thanks for letting me tell this story, and I do hope more people will give their description of this very sensual subject. :cool:

[littlej1019]

Put me in the "love anal" column. Anything I can get in there is welcome, dildo, vibrator, cock, popsicle, plunger handle...It all feels good, especially when there's something in there when I'm getting blown. Being on the giving end is my second favorite type of sex, after blowjobs.

[WestTennBiGuy]

I personally LOVE anal. I've been called Gay here in chat because I do anal, that dumb ass needs to learn the differance LOL. I'm happily married to a bi lady & madly in love with her, That aint gay, LOL.

To me, anal is the closest that us guys can get to of experiencing total orgasm like our women do. I get so weak after my orgasm, mmmmmm. I didn't have to aquire a taste for it but rather fin what posistions I could enjoy it.

Some my call me a dumb ass for not understanding what "Top or Bottom" means but I love riding a dick or laying on my back & geting screwed. Doggie style doesn't do anything for me, it's kinda uncomfortable.

If you are curious about trying anal, you can always find small vibrate
ors @ your local toy store (Adult Book Store), and try using it to get you use to it. Like someone earlier posted , we all have been constipate & probably shat bis turds that are larger than most things we could stick in us.
I wouldn't try sticking something big in my first time, it could most likely be very painful & deter me from trying the best experience of my life.


Rob

[mrplayfuluk]

well as I started this thread I may as well and my views which that the idea of a cock up me doesn't appeal but having tried an aneros prostate massager ( www.aneros.com ) and having had multiple orgasms with it I appreciate what can happen. However this is small by comparison to the average cock.... maybe the idea is less appealing than the reality and intensity of the actual experience! quick additional question if I may... if you like it do you stay hard throughout and cum while its happening or do you go limp like in the porno movies?

[but that's my name!!]

well as I started this thread I may as well and my views which that the idea of a cock up me doesn't appeal but having tried an aneros prostate massager ( www.aneros.com ) and having had multiple orgasms with it I appreciate what can happen. However this is small by comparison to the average cock.... maybe the idea is less appealing than the reality and intensity of the actual experience! quick additional question if I may... if you like it do you stay hard throughout and cum while its happening or do you go limp like in the porno movies?
Personaly I stay hard and have full orgasm but don't ejaculate, though I often ... er... leak? (is that the right word?) sometimes I keep comeing and it's too good so have to stop or my head'll explode. Afterwards I cant walk because my legs are so shakey.
Anyone else?

[my-00-stang]

i love anal it was one of my first bi experiences and although i haven't been with a guy in a while i still use my wifes vibrator and i cum so hard with it and don't even need to jack off to achieve orgasm with it.......so i am a definate on the anal play love need it have to have it :bounce:

[WestTennBiGuy]

well as I started this thread I may as well and my views which that the idea of a cock up me doesn't appeal but having tried an aneros prostate massager ( www.aneros.com ) and having had multiple orgasms with it I appreciate what can happen. However this is small by comparison to the average cock.... maybe the idea is less appealing than the reality and intensity of the actual experience! quick additional question if I may... if you like it do you stay hard throughout and cum while its happening or do you go limp like in the porno movies?

I keep a hard-on for awhile but eventually lose it, & yes I cum while climaxing, but only in certian positions. Like I said earlier doggiestyle doesn't get me off.

Rob

[unum60]

Great thread, I luv the responses --- they help me to understand how I fit in to the "whole scene". People ask about: what was your first expereince? Are you bi or bicurios? Are you a bottom or a top? Are you fem or masc? etc, etc.

Well the answer to all those questions revolves around the anal issue! With men I always end up on the bottom -- this is why I have posted the pics. The pics describe to me "what it is" that always lands me on the bottom. If I want to participate in the bisexual lifestyle -- then me being on the bottom is what it is going to be about, with men.

I have had to expend some effort and energy to be comfortable with anal sex. I am squeamish about ordors and things that make a penis unattractive (dirty). Also it takes a little mental preparation in order to let a man have anal sex with me, if not the expereince is uncomfortable and it can hurt. So over the years I have learned to fulfill the bedroom expectations of my partners and enjoy myself at the same time, by being an adequate bottom.

Jason

[stillconfused]

Great topic, it seems like nobody is into anal sex these days. I've done it with chicks and can't last 30 seconds. I have always wanted to see how it is the other way around, having a hot stiff cock pumping me, but the only two bi-guys I've been with were strictly oral only. That's fun, and tasty, but when I'm with a guy I'm the dirty little bitch, and dirty little bitches need to get fucked every now and then.

kimmiemale is right on target. I never even thought about playing with my ass until I was 22 when a gf blew me with a vibrator shoved in. Then I learned how to finger myself while jacking off and achieved mind blowing orgasms. That's right guys, we have a G-Spot too. The only problem is as you get older you lose elasticity down there and can have trouble with the roids. I stopped all anal activity when I was 35, but it was too late, my roids had been fingered to death. A couple of years later I got the sigmoscope and the doctor found some polyps (benign thankfully) that had to be removed. He also did a complete internal/external hemmaroidectomy which is very painful post morphine for 2-3 weeks. But now I have a brand new virgin ass and it is tight. I can barely get a finger in there now, I need a little cock to loosen it up. (Side Note: Demerol is often prescribed for pain after this type of surgery but I hated it. It turns you into a vegetable moron, ask for Celebrex instead. Celebrex is a great painkiller that also, at least to me, provides a mood lift, while Demerol is depressing and rots you from the inside out. God I'm boring!

[but that's my name!!]

when I'm with a guy I'm the dirty little bitch, and dirty little bitches need to get fucked every now and then.
:bigrin: I know exactly how you feel :bigrin:

[stillconfused]

too bad you're in London

[biwords]

Stillconfused: My understanding is that different people react differently to demerol. I've had it for endoscopies and loved the effect of the demerol -- a quasi-religious experience. (the demerol, not the endoscopies).

[biwords]

forgot to ask; why did you find you could only make it last for 30 seconds?

Thx

biwords

[sunnyside]

I don't mind getting it up the arse once in a while and giving it doesn't turn me on like a pussy i find the vagine more equipped to satisfy my penis but the exitement of some thing tight can arouse me from time to time and they idea of something big filling my anal passage . offcourse allways keep it clean and play it safe.

[dans94]

In response to biwords and cerealk, my prostate massage technique:

After giving the full body massage and warming up the genital area, which should take about an hour, apply a large amount warm water based lube to your middle and index fingers. (As a side note, my wife and I have a high bed with a lower table at the foot. We put lots of blankets on the table for knee padding and I lay on my stomach on the bed with my knees on the table and shoulder width apart. This positions my ass for easy access and is really comfortable. My thighs are away from the bed enough to allow access to my lower stomach.)

The guy should have a good erection at this time but only touch it incidently, when reaching for other areas. Sit to one side and reach in front of his thigh to his lower abdomen with an oiled hand. Make a combination of light strokes from his belly button to his pubes and kneading motions just above his pubes. At the same time, begin lightly stroking his anus with the well lubed fingers. Just glide them the length of his crack, stopping to put moderate pressure on his perinium, not his anus. Don't forget to continue massaging his lower abdomen. As you glide up his crack from his perinium to his anus you will, sooner or later, feel and see his juicy hole try to suck your fingers inside. It will pucker and pull, pucker and pull. Apply lots more k-y or other to the fingers at this time and just touch them to his anus while pressing on his perinium with your thumb, not too hard. (you can wiggle your thumb on the perinium, very erotic) If you pull your fingers directly up from the anus the k-y will kind of pull it up too, just a little. These are all very tender moves. Make small, light circle movements with your fingers or finger right on the anus. At this time the guy will probably be trying to back onto your fingers. Tease him. ;) When you're ready, probably 10 or 15 minutes into this, allow your middle finger to enter his outer sphincter. It'll just happen, never force it. At this point I like to start making little pumping motions with the finger, fucking just his outer sphincter muscle. Tiny little movements. When the time is right your finger will enter the inner sphincter just as it did the outer. Let it rest there for a few seconds before starting the tiny little fucking movements again. If you need more k-y remove your finger slowly, let his anus push it out. Reload and lay your finger on his anus and gently press it in. You can obviously feel his sphincter muscle relax when he's ready to accept it. Never force anything into a tight anus.

It's finally time to go for the prostate. Still making the small fucking motions with your finger, let it slide in a little more with each stroke. Now it's time to start increasing the length of the strokes. Nice long, slow strokes with a little twist. Move your finger around in the opening like you're trying to make it bigger. Very slightly and gently though. In the position I mentioned above the sphincter will be located down toward the pubes and maybe an inch and a half or two inches inside. Your finger tip should feel a firm wall of tissue with a couple of small nodes protruding. If the prostate in enlarged they might feel larger than your finger tip. If it's enlarged be even more gentle with your massage. I like to start by lightly stroking these nodes from top to back, or from the direction of the belly button to the anus. Slight shivers should be coursing through him about now and he may say he needs to deficate. If you have cleaned him out properly you won't feel any feces and can tell him to go ahead and try. If he grunts a little, apply a little more pressure to the nodes as you stroke them and a little more pressure to the perinium. He will probably feel like he has to shit, piss and cum all at the same time. Some people can't take too much of this at the first sitting so you might want to grasp his cock at this time and make him cum. Be sure to keep pressure on his perinium and the prostate nodes while you feel his anus rythmicly contract around your finger as he ejaculates. This is a very hot feeling.

An alternate massage would put the reciever on his back and you would do the same things while sucking his cock. Hope this gives you some new ideas.

[dans94]

Sorry my last post was so long but I forgot a couple of things. :)

Gloves aren't mandatory but make sure your nails are trimmed and your hands are clean.

If the guy's anus has relaxed you can try something a urologist did to me once. Put fairly heavy pressure on the prostate then pull your finger out of his ass quickly. You'll be making a kind of sweeping motion across his prostate. You should see his anus puckering rythmicaly and his cock will jerk. You can make him come from this if repeated.

[biwords]

dans94, we're in your debt!

[Cerealk]

That sounds sooo good, cant wait to try it out. Thx for sharing =)

[ihavapa]

I don't mind a nice dildo from the ladies or a nice cut shaved or well trimmed cock, but not always guess I gotta be in the mood or really turned on.

[Vegastud]

I was introduced to man to man sex by being penetrated. I'd been drugged to accomplish this, and as I came out of it and feelings started to returned to my numb body and I felt him fucking me, the sensation was fantastic. I voluntarily let him fuck me two more times that same evening, and I've loved anal ever since. The biggest organ I've taken is 10" and I loved the feeling of fullness inside of me. Just wish I could get it more often than I do. I have no desire whatsoever to do it to another guy though, but I would like to experience giving anal to a woman.

[sennex]

My first true love was an older man who, as I was quite young all those years ago, gently introduced me to the various and many pleasures of man to man sex culminating in anal sex. He took great care to make the experience both painless and pleasureable for me and as I felt him penetrate me I achieved such heights of sexual pleasure and ecstacy, this act cemented our relationship for years afterwards.
As the years went by and I came to realise that I was bisexual my relationships with men usually involved me as the passive, receiving partner and I always encouraged my boyfriends to fuck me anally as it is to me the ultimate man on man sexual experience. With women however I have never had the slightest inclination to have any form of anal sex, to me it is just something that occurs with my male lovers.

[jack6two]

I'm crazy for sticking in my two cocks in pussy and anal at the same time!!!! I'm dreaming of it and it's one of the reason for my cock splitting acts. But my wife never let me do it, she doesn't like anal. Only a short moment before she is coming she likes it when i stick in a finger and massage her anal.

[Tommy2020]

I'm crazy for sticking in my two cocks in pussy and anal at the same time!!!! I'm dreaming of it and it's one of the reason for my cock splitting acts. But my wife never let me do it, she doesn't like anal. Only a short moment before she is coming she likes it when i stick in a finger and massage her anal.


You've got two (2) cocks...???????????? I gotta see this. Mildred... get the camera :) :) :)
Just kidding you Jack..... Have a great day
Tommy2020

[Cowan]

when I'm with another man I just go subbie and give in to him as he likes and if he want's my ass I juat let him have it asI enjoy a cock up my ass and really turn in to a real little subbie slut I just love it and always have :tongue: :bipride:

[stillconfused]

Hi biwords, I have only had anal sex twice, both times with the same girl. I could literally only last 30 seconds I guess because of the difference in tightness compared to the vag. Lucky for her that I was ten pumps and out because it really isn't good for your ass. I am starting to like ass play with myself again now that I'm roidless, and hope to find the right guy to fuck me someday, it seems like mission impossible though. As far as the Demerol goes, it was way too mind numbing for me, I couldn't even drive. I could function normally again once I switched to Celebrex and it even had a mood lifting component to it that's hard to describe. Sort of like a half a gram of coke and a six pack without the being all fucked up feeling. Nice to meet you biwords, pm me if you like.

[NakedBike]

The short answer is yes. Once "acquired" rather a-dicktive. As an experimental lad I never seemed to get it right as far as the reciever end was concerned but with due diligence, a willing mate and fine set of toys life would truly now be lacking without the play. Take "small" steps. It may not be everyone's cup of tea but I find it rather enjoyable from both sides of the equation. Somedays Yin somedays Yang.

[biwords]

Sennex and I must have been separated at birth!

[Chr15|]

I have wanted to try anal sex rescently, i have rescently been fingering my anus while masturbating, its sooooo good. :bigrin:

[biwords]

Yes, I think it should be part of every young man's education, sort of like the Grand Tour.

[Chr15|]

i think i am bisexual as rescently i have wanted to have anal sex and suck a penis and be sucked etc and jerk off another guy. so i am thinking i may just be bisexual. :eek:

[trip1]

i think i am bisexual as rescently i have wanted to have anal sex and suck a penis and be sucked etc and jerk off another guy. so i am thinking i may just be bisexual. :eek:

I was in my 20's and involved with my buddy and his wife. With all the fun we were having it was so natural to slide into the bi fun with him as well. I was in the Navy at the time and bi was looked at as gay and if found out you would end up hurt somewhere in the bowels of your ship. The strange part was when with my buddy and his wife I could care less. If it hadn't been a sort of natural flow into it and him asking me to suck his dick I might not have although I was always turned on by hard cock as well as the Ladies I just pushed it away as not to deal with it... Hope that came across ok...

[Chr15|]

yea its cool i understand what u mean :bigrin:

[tinkerbell99]

I would like to hear more about the prostate message... :tongue:

[genera101.2]

I love rimming. My first was when I was still in high school. He had me arch my back, arse in the air doggy style. It was the most intense feeling; I love receiving it and giving. The second time I had it he was gentle with me and taught me how to relax the muscle while he rimmed me. He was able to enter me only a little after all that relaxing, he was the biggest I have ever seen. Eleven inches and the fattest head, split me open, not literally. I have rimmed nearly every woman I have been with since and a couple of guy with nice asses with little hair. I think S was the only guy I rimmed, nice tight butt and he fit perfectly next to me when I slid all the way in him. :male: :bibounce: :male:

[BoiToy]

For me I liked it from the start. My first experience with a guy ended up with him fucking me. He was a gay guy who knew how to break in a virgin...from that experience, i've always bottomed with virtually every guy i've been with

I love the feeling of being penitrated...i find that i have really intense orgasms when i masturbate while being fucked..

[bi-robin-calif]

I only have two words to say about being on the receiving end of anal sex, from either a man or a woman:

"Ohhhhh.....yessss!"

[joxbear69]

I just started acquiring the taste myself--and won't go back. Have tried several varieties---rimming (giving--only if the other guy is clean; but I really enjoy receiving a hot tongue bath by another ---I get a tingling feeling down below just thinking about it); I have tapped a tight hole recently--wow! that was fun. Just last week, I bottomed---it was OK (not my favorite, but still fun as we tried all sorts of positions). I still consider myself mainly a top with mostly oral tendencies, but I now know I can have fun exploring more.

[DiamondDog]

Anal sex is boring to me since the men could be kissing, or touching/laying on top of one another, rimming, blowing each other, masturbating each other, or tons of other things.

Anal sex to me is all a bunch of power exchange/masculine posturing.

It's sort of like faking straight sex to me, and I'd rather be more creative.

[Spartik]

I tried this before but I'm not sure the message was sent.

I've been married for over 20 years. The first time I was successfully fucked by a man, I loved it so much that on the first thrust, I blurted, "Oh God, if I'd known this was this great, I wouldn't have gotten married!" Shortly after that, the AIDS scare hit and I wasn't fucked for most of the 80's. But I got to feel safe with condoms and have been happily fucking since.

I don't like toys much but there's nothing like a big man thrusting his hard cock up my ass from behind or on top of me and me grinding my ass to meet him. It's like a ongoing orgasm, so much that I often have trouble getting my cock to cum as all my pleasure attention is directed toward my ass.

The most important thing is to relax and the best piece of advice I received toward that end is to get on top the first time or when you begin. Then you can get your ass comfortable receiving a cock and avoid the defensive spasm. Then, it just feels great! :tongue:

[biwords]

Anal sex is boring to me since the men could be kissing, or touching/laying on top of one another, rimming, blowing each other, masturbating each other, or tons of other things.

Anal sex to me is all a bunch of power exchange/masculine posturing.

It's sort of like faking straight sex to me, and I'd rather be more creative.

DD, you really have to get over being so shy about expressing your opinions! :bigrin:

Some of the things you describe (touching, laying on top of one another, even masturbating one's partner) can obviously be part of face-to-face anal sex as well. Um, even I know that, and my experience is about as limited as it gets. And then there's the joy of gazing at your partner as he comes. Can't say that for rimming, I'd imagine...

[glantern954]

The other night while out drinking with friends a woman who knew someone in our group asked me about my bisexuality. She said said so you like to f### <and motions to her butt>. I said no and before I can finish she says Oh you like to get f#####. I said no, I am not really into anal sex at all. She said "No f###### way!" I replied back that there are plenty of gay and biasexual men that don't really care for anal sex. She replied back with "You are shitting me" and ran away.

Not really the reaction I expected, but I think that most people probably grow up thinking the same way she does. I know I did. It was confusing to me for a long time. I would ask myself "How can I be bi if I don't like anal sex?"

Turns out there are several ways. :)

[Daisy999]

The other night while out drinking with friends a woman who knew someone in our group asked me about my bisexuality. She said said so you like to f### <and motions to her butt>. I said no and before I can finish she says Oh you like to get f#####. I said no, I am not really into anal sex at all. She said "No f###### way!" I replied back that there are plenty of gay and biasexual men that don't really care for anal sex. She replied back with "You are shitting me" and ran away.

Not really the reaction I expected, but I think that most people probably grow up thinking the same way she does. I know I did. It was confusing to me for a long time. I would ask myself "How can I be bi if I don't like anal sex?"

Turns out there are several ways. :)

yeah everyone thinks if you have lesbian sex that you have to use a strapon/sex toys, or eat pussy :rolleyes: and I know tons of women (including myself) who don't do either of these things when we have sex with women.

GLantern-What sort of things do you do for sex with men that aren't anal sex?

[RIfitbiguy]

anal,is a wonderful experience, provided,you have mutual trust with your partner, you take your time, communicate, also plenty of lube helps,and mostly, be ready to truly relax,by assuming a passive role,if bottoming :flag2:

[wolfcamp]

I have been with two guys anally, and was on the receiving end both times. The first time was memorable. (Actually, both were memorable, but I'll relate the first experience.) I was at a new friend's house, talking and drinking wine. The purpose of my visit was sexual. It was prearranged, but I was a little reluctant to do anything. I was very nervous. I have always had a conflict between my desires and my inhibitions. Anyway, he persistently coaxed me into his bed. He was very patient, and I couldn't resist his seduction.

We were sucking each other, and I was enjoying it very much, when he suddenly pulled away. He reached over to his night stand, put his fingers into a jar of lube, and then started fingering my ass, which I enjoyed very much. Then he rolled me on my back and crawled between my legs. I thought he just wanted to rub cocks, which he did for a minute. Maybe I was a little naive. Maybe I was a lot naive, but I didn't see what was coming. He then hooked his arms behind my knees, and lifted my legs and ass into the air. When I felt his cock against my ass, I suddenly realized what he wanted, and I went into a slight panic. He stopped for a few minutes and we just laid there, rubbing against each other. He started kissing my chest and neck and nibbling my nipples, which really started to turn me on. Then, more slowly than before, he pushed me into the same position, and I felt a pressure and then penetration of my hole. I honestly don't remember much after that. It was a long time ago. I only remember my breathing was coming in quick little breaths, like I was on the verge of orgasm, but never quite getting there, and I remember, at some point, hooking my ankles together behind his back.

As I said, I am a a little conflicted about this sort of thing, and I was much worse back then. I was very traumatized the next day about what I had done. But as the trauma slowly wore off, I fantasized many, many times about repeating that same scene again. Before it happened, I wouldn't have thought I would like such a thing. So, in answer to your question, I would say it's an acquired pleasure.

[bohemian69]

I have always enjoyed anal. But I do think it is a little bit of an "aquired taste", both for men and women. If not done right ( alot of lube, toys, etc. etc.) anal can be very unpleasant and turn people off of it. Either that, or it just scares the hell out of them. :eek:

[Resurrection]

I seriously LOVE taking loads up my ass and later having cum drip out! I love it so much I'll do it for anyone.

[the sacred night]

Guy's G spot in in their arse, so I wonder if it's because the Bi man, is more open about it, were is the straight man would be worried about being perceived as gay if they liked it too much.

My fiance is straight and he loves me to use a strapon/dildo in his ass. He also likes me to rim him, and I like doing it. It was kind of hard to overcome my thoughts about "what comes out of there" at first, but I like it so much I don't really think about that anymore. Haven't gotten sick yet.

[bisubbie]

I love getting a cock up my ass. The wonderful thrusting and pure pleasure feeling his cum shooting deep inside me. The first time my boyfreind at the time took his time making sure I was ready for him. I never felt any pain. Every time after that all he had to do was sliide it in. I never put my cock up his ass, I'm strictly into getting fucked in my ass with a guy. It wasn't aquired, it was more like love at first fuck!!!!

I did give anal to two women over the years. It was alright but I'm not really into it.

bisubbie

[tell_no_one99]

i've never been fucked i get a little nervous thinking about it
I did buy a Dildo about a year ago and I use it every once in a while when I'm super horny.

[bayou_boy_2003]

well, i was put off by it because I had tried it before and it hurt. i have been "practicing" with the wife's dildo though and am eager to give it another try.

[jack6two]

You've got two (2) cocks...???????????? I gotta see this. Mildred... get the camera :) :) :)
Just kidding you Jack..... Have a great day
Tommy2020
Hy Tommy! Yes, their are two cocks, beginning from the half length of shaft, well splitted. look at bodymod or iam-bme sites with many pics. bye jack

[eric51953]

...Guys,if you have never tried it then you are missing out! Your G spot (prostate) will love you for it!The key points are *Be clean before you play,yes I know it sounds 'medical' but it is worth it.*DON'T rush or force it or anything..if you have a wife/g-f who is not hung up, she will know what massaging a mans g spot will do!.*Once you/she/he /they find it...you will fly!!!! Maybe many times becuse your dick needs no attention to get the same or more intense degree of orgasm as conventional sex.BUT whoever is doing it to you is 'in control' and can ,if they wish,get you to keep cumming...even when you are dry and fully spent!..Now that can be hell and make you ache!!It is refered to as being 'milked'...Don't hang back guys, be clean and find a guy/gal who has no hangups on this and you will FLY!!!!!

[chook]

I've said it once and I'll say it again.........no matter how you look at it Anal Sex is a pain in the arse!!!!! :eek:


Cheers Chook :bigrin:

[kenny]

Though I love sucking and being sucked I have never tried anal with a guy. I have had many different items inside me and must try a real cock sometime, however, I like cock play because its something only two guys can do. Anyone can fuck an ass, only guys can suck eachothers cock.

[jack6two]

I never had a cock inside, bur many tools. Mostly a brush stic and it brings a higher erection and splashing and cuming. The prostata is a wunderfull point for stimulation! That's fact. :tongue: