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WABIGuy
Nov 28, 2019, 2:06 AM
I have been married for over 23 1/2 yrs, I have had 2 experiences with 2 men, both I wish I could have had more time with. My wife has no idea about what I have done or what I long for, nor does she know truly how to please me. I could fuck her, cum my self and play with her pussy till I'm hard again. Witch does not take long , but I'm ready to fuck again. But I go for a long time, she has had multiple powerful orgasams and soaked the towel on the bed and I'm not close to cumming again. At least not with vaginal inter course. I have had conversations about if 1 of us has not had an orgasam then the others should finish the others
off any way possible, but it just does not happen. I guess that is why I seem to be moving more towards men, we as men just get each other and what it takes to please us. I know there are women that are great at this, they are just few and far between.

Who else has this issue?

Fresia
Nov 28, 2019, 9:06 PM
She isn't a firecracker in bed and so you guess THAT is the reason you seem to be moving more towards men?!?
Oh puleeeeeze, that's a load of shit. Be a man and own the fact that you want another mans cock in your hand (or your mouth or your ass) because of YOU and take that heavy accusation off of your wife!

Your wife doesn't know you (have) fuck(ed) men behind her back. In your mind you have taken those sexual experiences with those men and you compare her performance to their performances. And you are unhappy with her ability to satisfy you like they do.
You should try discussing that with her. Tell her she doesn't savor your sausage they way he did. Tell her she just hasn't been able to satisfy you the way your male lovers in the past have. I'm pretty sure your problem with her won't be a problem anymore.

Then you can go out and find one of those "few and far between" women who is great at whatever it is you are looking for.

KDaddy23
Nov 29, 2019, 1:34 PM
Seems to me that if she doesn't know how to please you, she's never asked and you've never told her. Women are different than guys are - duh. Even better, you just might run into a guy who won't please you the way you want to be pleased and I've never been able to understand why we expect lovers to do things that we won't tell them we like so we can be pleased with each other. Me? I'll ask and tell because - and as I like to say - I know how to have sex; I don't know how to have it with you so if you don't tell me, you're leaving me to my own devices... and ya might not be happy with the results.

chongster
Nov 29, 2019, 1:47 PM
She got you off once but not the second time? I know that it is very hard for me to get off twice in the same session. Most of the time I am one and done.
You think you can get off twice with a guy? I have found that all the guys I have been with are like me, one and done.
Maybe you need to take a longer break with the wife before you go for it again

WABIGuy
Nov 29, 2019, 7:16 PM
You are absolutely correct. I have never told her how to , and maybe I should. I guess I just got extremely lucky those few times I have had a man. Very generous sexually like me.
should have tattle do it random drunk thoughts.