Transitioning to play bottom role in the future

[desertboi]

Hey guys, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. Now, in terms of sexual activity, I've only slept with girls, but I have had non-penetrative experiences with other guys. Obviously I am bisexual (why else would I be here?) and am looking to get more serious into pursuing sex with men. The short version is this: most of the time I see myself being a top, but I do enjoy some anal play and would love to bottom now and again. I was wondering if you guys had any advice on how to train my anus to dilate in preparation to take a cock, or dildo or whatever, with more ease. Are there any routines that gradually stretch the hole? Thanks

[pole_smoker]

You answered your own question.


My bottom friends tell me how they just play with their ass holes, or use dildos.


They also have told me how for them it's easier to take an actual penis than it is a dildo or anything else designed for anal sex; but how both feel good to them. Some of them also told me how they like to sniff poppers during receptive/passive anal sex and that for them this makes it easier to take a penis or dildo.

[desertboi]

Thanks. Never tried poppers, ha, but that sounds awesome.

[Cutiliae]

I'm a submisive bottom type and my first and only anal experience was with my life long, and also married, FWB. He visits me from another state we had some time alone and a chance for me to give him a blowjob. He was laying on his back on the bed and after I got him hard I said that I wanted to try something. I grabbed some KY and lubed his cock up. I figured that me being on top would be best so I was in control of the situation. I then straddled him and worked him so he was able to penetrate me. He had to help some too by using his hands which were on my hips and kind of gently pushing down while thrusting his hips upward. I was surprised at how easy it was and I enjoyed the feeling. I was able to move up and down with ease and after about 3 minutes or so he climaxed. We still see each other often but he is not interested in anal...he just wants his blowjobs....Anyway, being on top was best for me.