View Full Version : I love anal masturbation, but can't stay hard while doing it
GrumpyDick
Jun 2, 2014, 10:08 PM
sliding my thin anal vibrator (new at this so haven't tried anything to thick) is one of the most amazing feelings, not just sexual feelings. The problem is I loose my hard on when I do this, even if it's not on vibrate. Only way to keep up my dick is to not move the dildo back and forth and keep it in one place, which doesn't feel like much of anything even while vibrating. Is this normal? Does anyone have any tips or hints on ways I could get around this problem?
averageguy
Jun 3, 2014, 8:59 AM
It depends whats going thru my mind, but same here. Most of the time when fucking my ass, I stay soft.
newlynymphos
Jun 3, 2014, 9:09 AM
Its normal :) Nothing to worry about. You're stimulating a different part of the body :) You can even make your ass and dick cumm, through anal stimulation, without ever needing an erection to get there! Now, add cock masturbation with anal masturbation, and you're likely to have the best orgasm you've ever experienced! I mean the type where your legs wobble , and you don't want to move when you're done!
pantyluvr55
Jun 3, 2014, 2:31 PM
Yesss! Been there, done that.
pantyluvr55
Jun 3, 2014, 3:38 PM
On occasion I will use a penis pump to help maintain an erection
, but not too great of a vacuum to where it causes discomfort.
mtnmen2
Jun 3, 2014, 3:39 PM
I lose my erection when I have a vibrator or dildo up my ass too. The only way I've ever stayed hard is when my friend was fucking me and giving me a reach around. Something more exciting about having a warm body behind you I guess.
lone-wolf
Jun 3, 2014, 4:26 PM
I usualy lose my erection when i am getting anal stimulation. i find i get a very intence and longer lasting orgasum from anal only.
steamienix
Jun 3, 2014, 5:07 PM
I usually combine anal and cock masturbation unless I'm really going for the long haul. Then, I would try not to touch my cock at all and wait for the orgasm to come solely from anal stimulation. It's only worked once, but I am working on how to do it every time or more often anyway. It's the most amazing feeling where your whole body shakes and it goes on for a long time. Well worth the practice and patience.