Mysterious Connections or References

[fredtyg]

I posted this story/question in another forum and only got one response so I thought I'd try it here. The question being have you ever had a mysterious referral that resulted in a hookup. I'll try to make the story brief:

Back in the early 80s I was living alone. Only a handful of people knew I was queer, although I'm sure others suspected. I was at home one night when the phone rang. I answer and what sounds like a woman asks for me by name. "She" says she was referred to me as someone who could help her with some remodeling. That was rather strange as I knew next to nothing about that sort of thing.

I told her I didn't know why anyone would give her my name as that wasn't something I knew anything about, but I also said she sounded cute and I wouldn't mind meeting her. She says she's not a girl but people often think he is on the phone because of his feminine voice. I switch to homo mode and say I'd LOVE to see the guy behind that voice and he invites me up to his place without hesitation.

To make a long story short, that ended up in probably the most erotic one on one m2m I've ever had. That, after we spoke for a while and, once it was obvious we were both queer and going to have sex, I'd asked him who gave him my name. He wouldn't say. He refused to say, for some reason. I would have liked to know if only to thank the guy.

He never did tell me and I wonder to this day who gave him my name. It had to have been someone I know. How else would he know my name? I even mentioned a couple names to him of some guys that knew I was queer and he said they didn't tell him. So who was it?

Since it wasn't the obvious guys, I'm thinking it was some guy who was queer that suspected I was and set us up so he could find out for sure. Either that, or someone setting me up for more nefarious reasons. Either way, no harm done in the long run and an awesome one night with a sweetie pie.

Anyone else ever have something like that happen? I'm guessing this might have been a one in a million type thing.

[Hypersexual11]

Before the internet, the only way I met new guys was though current guy lovers. I think the term 'referred" was actually used on occasion.

[Gearbox]

I was sitting on the settee with a gf many years ago before the net and taking to m-m, and my mob rung. It was some bloke who's voice I didn't recognise with a withheld No. He said how I'm a nice bloke and asked if I'd like to go for a drink.:eek:
I thought it was a pisstake at first (not unusual), but he was serious with no held-back sniggering etc. I asked who gave him my number, but he wouldn't say. He just kept on trying to convince me that he was genuine. I said I was flattered but wasn't free (so my gf didn't catch on.lol).

I never found out who it was or who gave him my No. But somebody I knew must have guessed that I may be interested. And I WAS! I fantasised about meeting him for ages, but he never got back to me. Damn!

[cuttin2dachase]

If I were openly bi and out, I would probably be flattered to be contacted by other men and naturally curious as to who referred me to them. I choose to be closeted, not only because my family and str8 friends would not understand and accept it, but also because having a secret bi side is very exciting and naughty ! My preference is bi married men with the the same desire to keep things secret and discreet and not become emotionally attached. I enjoy secret, discreet male romance and sex very much, but have no desire to form emotional ties with men other than male bonding and friendship. I openly discuss my desires and fantasies with my male partners before we meet and let them know it's possible to have semi-regular fun if we click, but that the majority of of men I've met were one-time hookups. On quite a few occasions I have compared notes with my partners on other local men we've met or would like to meet. If I was interested in one of his male friends, I would tell him it's OK to give him my email address and describe me in general..and that I would do the same for him. No names or addresses or phone numbers were involved. I was pleasantly surprised to receive emails from other men who told me upfront that our mutual friend had recommended me. I also initiated email contact with several "friends of friends" after being assured it would be OK. I jokingly called it "cock networking". I met 6 other men this way and the same rules applied. I also arranged a few mmm 3ways with mutual friends who had expressed desires and fantasies about group sex.

[Bottomup]

Yes I had it done to me 2X but I was Difference I was with a Man I saw for sex once in a while one day I was with him having Sex when his Door bell sounded he went to answer the Door I am in the bedroom Naked when My Friend game in and said I have a surprise for you I look up and a Man with a Big was standing there with a hard on
Yes He Fucked Me my new man and I did a lot of fucking for around 10 yrs when I was introduced to a other man I was with him 8ys both men I Get fucked by now just not at the same time

[TerrorTwilight]

When I was like 14-15 I used to live close to a highway rest stop. I'd heard what sometimes goes on there, but I had my doubts since it was a small town. Well I went into the bathroom and acted like I was taking a piss. About a minute later this older guy, later 60's-ish I'd say, came in and went to the urinal next to me and started to pee, but he was standing pretty far away so I had a good look at his cock. I made it pretty obvious I was looking at his cock, and he started looking at mine. He finished pissing and told me to follow him if I wanted, but stay a little way behind him so it didn't look obvious. So I followed him about 1/4 mile into the woods and he laid down on the ground and pulled his pants down and told me to suck him off. He was pretty forceful, holding my head down and making me deep throat him (even though it wasn't that long, but it was thick). I sucked him for a while, then he tensed up and jammed my head down on his cock, blew his load and made me swallow, then got up and left without a word.

Probably not the safest thing I've ever done, but it was hot!

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

Maybe it was your Parents that recommended him..?..

[69luvr]

When I was like 14-15 I used to live close to a highway rest stop. I'd heard what sometimes goes on there, but I had my doubts since it was a small town. Well I went into the bathroom and acted like I was taking a piss. About a minute later this older guy, later 60's-ish I'd say, came in and went to the urinal next to me and started to pee, but he was standing pretty far away so I had a good look at his cock. I made it pretty obvious I was looking at his cock, and he started looking at mine. He finished pissing and told me to follow him if I wanted, but stay a little way behind him so it didn't look obvious. So I followed him about 1/4 mile into the woods and he laid down on the ground and pulled his pants down and told me to suck him off. He was pretty forceful, holding my head down and making me deep throat him (even though it wasn't that long, but it was thick). I sucked him for a while, then he tensed up and jammed my head down on his cock, blew his load and made me swallow, then got up and left without a word.

Probably not the safest thing I've ever done, but it was hot!


Lucky You! I wish I'd have that kind of luck! lol

[WildColonial]

Don't know if this counts, but I reconnected with a high school classmate via Facebook. We ran in very different crowds, but he turned out to be a really cool and funny guy, someone I'd date in a heartbeat if we were both single and in the same area (he's in NC, I'm still in OH). We started chatting about our respective lives, and I mentioned some frustration about the guy I was dating at the time. He gave me some good advice and told me he was into me in high school. We ended up having very hot cybersex, on more than one occasion. I felt guilty, because his wife was a great person, but I also felt very sexy and naughty.

He came up for our 20-year high school reunion in August of last year, but alas, he was sick the night of the reunion. In any case, he admitted his wife wasn't into FMF threesomes.