Kissing??

[Gary59]

As I am rather new to exploring my bi-side, (so new that I have yet to have any actual real life experience), I am curious about a certain topic. During the many chats I have had, either online, on the phone, or even in video chat, the subject of kissing another man has come up. In my opinion, a very high majority of men seem to find this practice gross. I have had offers from guys to suck my cock, lick my balls and even rim my ass with their tongues but when approached with the idea of kissing they find it to be repulsive. I find it sort of strange that a guy could suck a cock, swallow cum and even use his tongue to stimulate someone anally but finds that kissing is such a dirty practice. As someone new and inexperienced to this side of me I was just wondering if I am missing something in my thoughts on this. Thanks for any enlightenment you can provide on the topic.

[elian]

Well I used to not like kissing because I often had bad breath. Some people don't like to feel the facial hair.. or the philosophical notion - "the eyes are the window to the soul" - maybe people are just too shy or they have poor self esteem.

There is a whole continuum of both romantic and sexual desire out there that ranges from full fledged romantic relationships to "getting your rocks off" as quickly as possible and leaving..

What YOU like will only be determined by your experience.

Personally the thought of rimming is really the only thing that bothers me..I guess if you are perfectly clean maybe I could see but even if they intend to be, most folks can't help but be a little unclean there.

[Coastocoast]

Some but not all bisexual men are looking for sexual relationships with men but not romance. They try to separate the idea of romance, including kissing from something they perceive and want as purely sexual and non-emotional. Prostitutes will often kiss a client anywhere on the body but not on the mouth reserving this one act for a real life romantic relationship. You will hear some men say I am bi not gay when asked about kissing. Take the time to talk to people to ensure you are meeting someone with desires similar to yours and that there is no misunderstanding. Many people merely need to hear where and when, others want romance and some want something in between.

[IndyBiFun]

For me, kissing adds to the overall enjoyment. I'm a big fan of sharing a hot kiss or two or three or....

[sterculius]

EEWW! I'll suck his cock and I'll swallow his cum but I have no desire to kiss another man! I'm a cocksucker, not a faggot! (only kidding!)

[chapear]

Kissing adds to the pleasure/experience for me.

[SweetnSpicy241]

For me, kissing adds to the overall enjoyment. I'm a big fan of sharing a hot kiss or two or three or....

I agree, Kissing is part of the enjoyment. However, I prefer no facial hair. And the wife, loves it.

[nudistharry]

For me, kissing is a more intimate thing then sucking cock.

[jeremyfish]

Yeah, there's nothing like tongue-wrestling with another dude who knows how to kiss.

[NakedInSeattle]

Kissing? Love it! Why the hell not? It's part of the package as far as I'm concerned.

[Chris_t_boston]

I think I like kissing because I'm orally-fixated. I enjoy using my mouth, tongue and lips.

One of the best male lovers I had refused to kiss. He did everything else great but wouldn't kiss.

[Realist]

Personally, I prefer kissing and romantic involvement, but have been with a couple of guys who didn't want to kiss. I'm flexible and, if I like a person enough to have a relationship with them, I will go with the flow.

In fact, my longest relationship with a guy was with a fellow who didn't kiss.....10 years!

[BareProf]

For me, kissing is a more intimate thing then sucking cock.

Yes, watching my slut wife sucking cock excites me. Watching her passionately kiss a guy upsets me. As for me, the right guy and amount of passion I feel will have me kissing him, sucking his nipples then his cock.

[_Joe_]

Kissing brings on an emotional connection, which many people are actually against - whether they realize it or not.

[large dick]

Men who are bisexual but do not kiss have issues with their sexuality. Me I won't have sex with anyone that does not kiss.